Reading between the lines


Reading between the lines

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    February 15, 2016 at 2:10 pm #93596
    Reading between the lines

    Please help me read between the lines here.
    I met someone long distance and hit it off pretty well then we hit a snag about 3 months into it. I decided to do a no contact on him with the hopes of starting fresh and using the time heals all wounds theory. So after no contact for 31 days, I sent him an out of the blue text asking about something that was of interest to him with the intent of see whether or not he will respond to my question. Within minutes he responded with possible answers to my question. I chose to not respond back by making appear that I’m cool with him responding or not responding. Then it gets interesting….
    The next afternoon, he sends me a text with another possible answer to my question and ended the response with a we are cool again, in a round about way. I chose to respond with a simple thank you about 4 hours later.
    This guy has a habit of not responding for an hour to a couple days so in this case, he responded within literally 3 minutes.

    February 15, 2016 at 2:12 pm #93600


    I want to know two things here:
    1. Was my text after no contact a pleasant surprise as he responded so quickly?
    2. When he did not hear from me after his initial response, he chose to send me another message and wrapped it up with us being on good terms again, does this mean, he is showing signs of wanting to be back together again?

    Thanks for any insight you can offer