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Recently out gay guy

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    jake989
    jake989
    Participant
    December 11, 2017 at 4:50 am #159640
    Recently out gay guy

    I am newly gay male and very new when it comes to dating and gay relationships and I am a bit lonely.
    I’ve noticed that dating has become very difficult especially with social media and dating/hookup apps and how easy it is to just have flings and dates come and go.
    Recently I went on a date with a guy I met on tinder. The night went great. We had typical dinner and drinks followed by him coming over to my house and staying the night which I usually don’t do but, the night went so much better than planned. The next day he left said he had a great time and messaged me later on asking how my day was. Later saying he wanted to hangout the following weekend. We chatted lightly every other day. Towards mid week I had the rest of the week off and I feel I texted him too much and got too excited and I could feel the conversation almost get one sided. When I asked him on Friday night if he wanted to hangout Saturday he said he most likely couldn’t but, would let me know

    aja_11990
    aja_11990
    Participant
    December 19, 2017 at 11:40 pm #160524

    did you ever hear back from him? If not, maybe wait a couple days and then message him again?

    longhorn4life
    longhorn4life
    Participant
    December 21, 2017 at 7:07 am #160644

    I know that feeling. I would say give it 3 days for him to respond. If he doesn’t, just move on. Guys are flakes online

    Anonymous
    Anonymous
    Inactive
    November 27, 2019 at 7:19 am #225774

    Yes you I right its his problems.

    Anonymous
    Anonymous
    Inactive
    November 27, 2019 at 7:50 am #225794

    I think You were just being yourself, it’s his problem.

    Matt.Rogers
    Matt.Rogers
    Participant
    November 30, 2019 at 6:57 am #225835

    It’s fine to make compromise, but not about your personality 🙂

    Nettech
    Nettech
    Participant
    December 1, 2019 at 8:24 am #225848

    I’m totally new to all this as well, in fact, I am entering into all this after a 10 year marriage. Before that, only been with girls and denied the truth all my life. I feel like I am a teenager trying to figure out this crazy dating thing all over again. Scary stuff

    TomarHawk
    TomarHawk
    Participant
    January 4, 2020 at 1:22 pm #227274

    Hey all. So I finally got the courage after years of suffering to admit to myself and friends and family that or it was just a Tinder match and nothing will come of it?

    Dartz21101135
    Dartz21101135
    Participant
    March 17, 2020 at 10:52 pm #231708

    Being excited is not wrong, maybe he had things going on, try texting a little less but dont lose your spirit!

    AlexDoll
    AlexDoll
    Participant
    April 14, 2020 at 6:01 pm #232804
    Reply To: Recently out gay guy

    Hi all!
    I’m new here I’m gay and proud of it! I’m not quite sure what I will publish, but I just started dating again after most of this year I worked on myself. I’m over twenty, my last only relationship lasted 8 years … with a gorgeous man. After breaking up online
    Acquaintances fascinated me and I completely changed during this time !! I found a new love at gaystryst dot com
    So I feel a little ignorant, but optimistic!
    I would like to offer some positivity in exchange for a little advice, I think it would be great to make friends here – I am glad to receive a personal message, even if it’s just chatter!

    See you on the forums as soon as I stop lurking:)

    Milkman887
    Milkman887
    Participant
    June 1, 2020 at 6:33 pm #234537
    Reply To: Recently out gay guy

    What is the question?

    Frazer84
    Frazer84
    Participant
    June 2, 2020 at 5:47 pm #234570
    Reply To: Recently out gay guy

    Keep your head up! It does all get easier

    Anonymous
    Anonymous
    Inactive
    June 4, 2020 at 2:20 am #234625
    Reply To: Recently out gay guy

    I know that feeling. I would say give it 3 days for him to respond. If he doesn’t, just move on. Guys are flakes online