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jake989

Participant

December 11, 2017 at 4:50 am #159640

Recently out gay guy

I am newly gay male and very new when it comes to dating and gay relationships and I am a bit lonely.
I’ve noticed that dating has become very difficult especially with social media and dating/hookup apps and how easy it is to just have flings and dates come and go.
Recently I went on a date with a guy I met on tinder. The night went great. We had typical dinner and drinks followed by him coming over to my house and staying the night which I usually don’t do but, the night went so much better than planned. The next day he left said he had a great time and messaged me later on asking how my day was. Later saying he wanted to hangout the following weekend. We chatted lightly every other day. Towards mid week I had the rest of the week off and I feel I texted him too much and got too excited and I could feel the conversation almost get one sided. When I asked him on Friday night if he wanted to hangout Saturday he said he most likely couldn’t but, would let me know

aja_11990

Participant

December 19, 2017 at 11:40 pm #160524

did you ever hear back from him? If not, maybe wait a couple days and then message him again?

longhorn4life

Participant

December 21, 2017 at 7:07 am #160644

I know that feeling. I would say give it 3 days for him to respond. If he doesn’t, just move on. Guys are flakes online

Anonymous

Inactive

November 27, 2019 at 7:19 am #225774

Yes you I right its his problems.

Anonymous

Inactive

November 27, 2019 at 7:50 am #225794

I think You were just being yourself, it’s his problem.

Matt.Rogers

Participant

November 30, 2019 at 6:57 am #225835

It’s fine to make compromise, but not about your personality 🙂

Nettech

Participant

December 1, 2019 at 8:24 am #225848

I’m totally new to all this as well, in fact, I am entering into all this after a 10 year marriage. Before that, only been with girls and denied the truth all my life. I feel like I am a teenager trying to figure out this crazy dating thing all over again. Scary stuff

TomarHawk

Participant

January 4, 2020 at 1:22 pm #227274

Hey all. So I finally got the courage after years of suffering to admit to myself and friends and family that or it was just a Tinder match and nothing will come of it?

Dartz21101135

Participant

March 17, 2020 at 10:52 pm #231708

Being excited is not wrong, maybe he had things going on, try texting a little less but dont lose your spirit!

AlexDoll

Participant

April 14, 2020 at 6:01 pm #232804

Reply To: Recently out gay guy

Hi all!
I’m new here I’m gay and proud of it! I’m not quite sure what I will publish, but I just started dating again after most of this year I worked on myself. I’m over twenty, my last only relationship lasted 8 years … with a gorgeous man. After breaking up online
Acquaintances fascinated me and I completely changed during this time !! I found a new love at gaystryst dot com
So I feel a little ignorant, but optimistic!
I would like to offer some positivity in exchange for a little advice, I think it would be great to make friends here – I am glad to receive a personal message, even if it’s just chatter!

See you on the forums as soon as I stop lurking:)