Restarting after a while of not seeing each other

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Restarting after a while of not seeing each other

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    Bjoern1605
    Bjoern1605
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    March 28, 2018 at 10:51 pm #168871
    Restarting after a while of not seeing each other

    Hello everyone,

    I started dating this girl a few months back, she is intelligent and I really like her. Due to our schedules not matching we haven’t seen much of each other, maybe like once a week, she’s now away for 3 weeks. The last talk we had she said that she doesn’t know about us, because we don’t see us that much. I was confused and wanted to clear things up… again our schedules didn’t allow for us to have that talk. She’s now abroad, and I want to maybe facetime her to get some clarity. I want to keep up with her online, but don’t want to seem clingy and end up being befriended. Also, how should I approach her after she gets back?

    Thank you!

    helpme
    helpme
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    March 29, 2018 at 5:14 pm #169073

    I would be open and honest with her. You dont want to be friendzoned so this is the way to avoid it

    LoneWolf
    LoneWolf
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    April 2, 2018 at 6:10 pm #169379

    What helpme said. You gotta tell her how this is making you feel and see if it can be worked through. Friendzoning is a possibility. This happened with the last girl I dated, and she wasn’t willing to alter her schedule for me like I was for her, so we’re just friends now.