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matildamParticipantJune 11, 2015 at 5:17 pm #80700
So im dating this guy, and it seems like I am always the one texting/arranging dates etc it takes him hours to reply sometimes and its not even a sentence it will be a word of something stupid it seems like im the only one making conversation because if I dont make conversation we generally won’t talk.
He doesn’t compliment me but I’ve seen him compliment other women on social media etc, yet he tells me he fancys me and really likes me? its all confusing. He does not show any of this.
I really dont know what to do I’ve confronted him about this and he will either ignore me or change the subject or agree but then go back to how he was! i just can’t win, i dont know what to do i feel awful and on the verge of crying
prophetParticipantJune 11, 2015 at 6:18 pm #80704
I wouldn’t say you need to move on necessarily but pulling back a bit may do some good. If he’s really interested in you he will come forward a bit if you back off. Let him be the first to text sometimes, arrange a date…etc.
southernbelleParticipantJune 11, 2015 at 7:41 pm #80705
I agree with prophet. Maybe just pull back. He thinks he’s got you and that you wont go anywhere. Just give him a little space and see what he does. If he tries to reconnect then you know hes into you. If he lets you slip away, it was his loss.
Hobbit GirlParticipantJune 15, 2015 at 3:00 pm #80974
I agree with the other people. Just pull back.
missymisdaParticipantJune 15, 2015 at 3:15 pm #80981
time to move on sweetheart. he has no interest in you.
cja0115ParticipantJune 17, 2015 at 3:58 pm #81277
Definitely pull back. Stop contact him. If he is interested he will miss you and call you. It is confusing when you hear them say they like you…but believe me, actions speak louder. Be strong and even if you have to, delete his number, or write it down somewhere safe or to a girlfriend you can trust. If he does not contact you within a few weeks, then you know your answer.
adviceseeker1ParticipantJune 18, 2015 at 10:11 pm #81307
I agree with prophet. Step back a little bit from the situation. I know that’s extremely hard to do especially if you really like him, but I think you should try a little less. Give it a few days or weeks. Don’t text him. See what happens. If he does really like you, he will make an effort to talk to you/see you!
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