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zach215ParticipantJune 23, 2014 at 3:38 am #55928
I need help underatanding a female haha so I met this chick last year and she added me to a group chat with a few of her friends and she was all over me telling me how attractive I am and calling me “babe” and whatnot but at first she was in my friend zone but eventually I liked her enough to ask her ou which she ended up turning me down and said “I value our friendship too much” when she called me babe the day before… She also asked one of my friends to hook up with a different guy at a festival we were both going to in a group chat which I left and when she asked me why I left I asked her why I would want to be in a chat that’s 90% about you wanting to make out with this guy. So she apologized later saying she was a dick to me and ended up avoiding us both… Basically I’m trying to figure out why she went from liking me so much to being just her friend and when even tho she says she “loves me” evrey time we hang out she ignores me…
westrobert1ParticipantJune 23, 2014 at 12:32 pm #55958
If you know she liked you, chances are she still has feelings for you, talk to her and tell her what you think and see how she reacts to it
AnonymousInactiveJune 23, 2014 at 5:35 pm #55993
Oh goodness! She is very young right? I know you are trying to understand her, but the reality is, she doesn’t even understand herself. She is fickle and playing games. So stop trying to figure her out because that is not your problem. To tell you she loves you, then ignores you, to tell you how attractive you are, then denies you on a date, to want to make out with another guy fully knowing you would know about it….needless to say she is quite confused. Saying 1 thing and doing another. All you need to know about her is she doesn’t know herself very well and being in a relationship with her would be quite confusing and challenging. The details as to why she is like that are layered and probably quite dynamic and a mess I promise you don’t want to get tangled up in. So instead of spending your time trying to figure her out, spend your time on letting the situation go, let the idea of her go and go find another girl that has it together a bit more!
jhoeksjmcgParticipantJune 24, 2014 at 11:46 am #56036
She’s playing hard to get. You need to play it right back!
braelleParticipantJune 24, 2014 at 12:52 pm #56061
Maybe she doesn’t know how you feel, have you made yourself clear? Or maybe she just likes the attention but has no intention of following through.
xoKellyParticipantJune 27, 2014 at 9:54 pm #56539
I agree that I think she likes the attention. When she was talking to that other guy, she wanted to get a rise out of you. She wanted you to get jealous. However, I don’t know why she would turn you down if she’s trying to make you jealous. I don’t think she knows what she wants. Try talking to her about how she feels and if she turns you down again maybe it’s time to move on.
sierrapiiParticipantJune 28, 2014 at 10:24 am #56546
It sounds like she’s either playing a game with you or you have waited too long to make a move on her and she has decided that she would rather preserve your friendship than jump into a relationship with you. I would seriously talk with her and tell her your feelings (difficult as that may be).
bright11ParticipantJune 30, 2014 at 6:52 am #56567
She might liked u initially but now she she seemed to like someone else.
Alberto521ParticipantJuly 1, 2014 at 3:48 am #56622
She is probably young, talk to her in person, and tell her straight up, don’t be afraid of being a little bit mean , but not too much.
Help24ParticipantJuly 1, 2014 at 6:45 pm #56718
Ok so I’m no expert and I’m new here but I help and understand people a lot and I’m good at it. I’ve had this problem quite a couple times, where girls like you and lose interest. It’s happening right now to me and usually it’s because you have gotten “friendzoned”. She cares about you too much to lose you. Or she simply doesn’t care it like you. But another thing that usually happens is that you are no longer the person she started liking. Look back and see what you have changed. Sometimes being too needy makes you different because they feel like you aren’t the person they started liking. I’m not sure about my response but please anyone feel free to add on or correct me. As I said I’m new and I also need help on this topic. My case is a bit different though.
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