She likes me but "Its complicated"?

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She likes me but "Its complicated"?

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    insanoflex312
    insanoflex312
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    April 8, 2019 at 3:29 pm #198347
    She likes me but "Its complicated"?

    Ive been seeing this girl for about 5 months. We’ve hung out a lot and been on more than a few dates, but nothing really has happened between us yet. Well, a week ago, I decided to really let her know how i feel, although ive done through text before with no answer. I came over, gave her flowers and told her in person how i felt. When i asked how she felt about me, she just said its complicated and shes not ready. I couldnt get a straight answer out of her, even when i asked if she just wanted to be friends. I told her i understand and that id wait for her. Since then ive backed off. There was a concert we were going to go to that she canceled last minute on me. I knew then that she didnt have feelings for me. But … Ive told friends about it but theyve all said that she likes me and that shes just afraid of relationships. Im crazy about her. Im not sure what to do. I feel like its a lost cause because shes backed off from me too, not really talking to me anymore.

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
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    April 9, 2019 at 9:21 pm #198408

    “Ive been seeing this girl for about 5 months.”
    “…but nothing really has happened between us yet.”

    ” When i asked how she felt about me, she just said its complicated and shes not ready.”
    ” I couldnt get a straight answer out of her…”
    “she canceled last minute on me…”
    “Im crazy about her. Im not sure what to do.”

    Anyone who has been “seeing someone” for {almost half a year} should know where they stand.
    The fact that (nothing) really has happened between you two suggests you’re in the “Friend Zone”.

    When someone tells you: “It’s complicated.”
    What they’re really saying is they don’t see YOU as being “the one”!

    “shes backed off from me too, not really talking to me anymore.”
    What more do you need her to do in order for you to understand SHE does NOT want to be with YOU?

    “Never love anyone who treats you like you’re ordinary.” – Oscar Wilde

    Love yourself enough to move on.
    In a world with over 7 Billion people rejection just means: NEXT!

    Best wishes!

    taz
    taz
    Participant
    April 14, 2019 at 5:35 pm #198633

    Just dont come across as over eager. State arent in it for the sake of and you want to know where you stand because you have the right to

    insanoflex312
    insanoflex312
    Participant
    April 15, 2019 at 4:37 pm #198656

    Well, shes recently reached out to me and we’ve been hanging out again. So theres that, I guess.

    spabsa
    spabsa
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    April 19, 2019 at 1:23 pm #198903

    Yah man pull back, date around or don’t. The important thing is that she knows you are someone who isn’t needy, and you couldn’t give two shits if it doesn’t work out. Let her come to you. If she doesn’t move on

    LionSage
    LionSage
    Participant
    April 24, 2019 at 2:10 pm #199071

    Any update?