She says she wants to focus on school. Help?

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She says she wants to focus on school. Help?

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    blairkattram
    blairkattram
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    November 2, 2013 at 1:41 am #42365
    Reply To: She says she wants to focus on school. Help?

    Move on bro. “I’m too busy” is a line. It’s bullshit and you deserve someone who will be real with you.

    Ubby
    Ubby
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    November 2, 2013 at 8:32 pm #42371
    Reply To: She says she wants to focus on school. Help?

    I think she’s trying to let you down easy as well. It’s something I say to guys I’m not interested in if I don’t want to hurt their feelings. It’s not a lie – because I am busy with school – but don’t get me wrong if I found “the one” I’d make room.

    PeruServ
    PeruServ
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    November 4, 2013 at 3:41 am #42393
    Reply To: She says she wants to focus on school. Help?

    She sounds young to me. Some girls at that age just aren’t serious about settling down with one guy. As such, they try to get a few guys in “orbit” to meet their emotional needs. I would drop contact for awhile and see if she tries to keep you in orbit or just drops contact completely.

    Find someone else. If she’s into you but putting you on the back burner then she’ll wake up and start investing in a relationship when she sees you’re on the way out. If she’s just not into you then you still need to find someone else.

    kelly
    kelly
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    November 5, 2013 at 3:53 pm #42497
    Reply To: She says she wants to focus on school. Help?

    Let her, but then show her that you still love, so you dont loose her

    meggie420bebe
    meggie420bebe
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    November 6, 2013 at 1:01 am #42507

    She isn’t sure what she wants and is just stringing you along until she does

    AndrewDelonnie101
    AndrewDelonnie101
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    November 6, 2013 at 6:28 pm #42536

    Shes letting you down easy.

    Dominicka
    Dominicka
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    November 9, 2013 at 7:05 am #42652

    I did the same, thinking it would be too hard to concentrate on school and a relationship. But hello, once you need support or need to get your mind off things, or just have a laugh or a cuddle, you are more than happy to have someone. Be bold and bring her some takeaway on a Friday night. She would not agree if you suggested it before, you try surprising her. If she reacts well, she reacted well. If not, maybe cool it off and let her come to you and chat her up sometime. Yea and keep the conversations positive, no blame.

    warpon
    warpon
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    November 10, 2013 at 5:35 pm #42668

    It should be true, considering not many lie on that decision but you either move on to another one or wait a lot of time to get with her.

    daiwa16
    daiwa16
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    November 10, 2013 at 8:46 pm #42671

    I’m in the same boat. It sucks. Sorry man

    tkanderson15
    tkanderson15
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    November 12, 2013 at 9:56 pm #42765

    I’m deffinetly not a pro on his but…. go for Somone else

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