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blairkattram

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November 2, 2013 at 1:41 am #42365

Reply To: She says she wants to focus on school. Help?

Move on bro. “I’m too busy” is a line. It’s bullshit and you deserve someone who will be real with you.

Ubby

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November 2, 2013 at 8:32 pm #42371

Reply To: She says she wants to focus on school. Help?

I think she’s trying to let you down easy as well. It’s something I say to guys I’m not interested in if I don’t want to hurt their feelings. It’s not a lie – because I am busy with school – but don’t get me wrong if I found “the one” I’d make room.

PeruServ

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November 4, 2013 at 3:41 am #42393

Reply To: She says she wants to focus on school. Help?

She sounds young to me. Some girls at that age just aren’t serious about settling down with one guy. As such, they try to get a few guys in “orbit” to meet their emotional needs. I would drop contact for awhile and see if she tries to keep you in orbit or just drops contact completely.

Find someone else. If she’s into you but putting you on the back burner then she’ll wake up and start investing in a relationship when she sees you’re on the way out. If she’s just not into you then you still need to find someone else.

kelly

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November 5, 2013 at 3:53 pm #42497

Reply To: She says she wants to focus on school. Help?

Let her, but then show her that you still love, so you dont loose her

meggie420bebe

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November 6, 2013 at 1:01 am #42507

She isn’t sure what she wants and is just stringing you along until she does

AndrewDelonnie101

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November 6, 2013 at 6:28 pm #42536

Shes letting you down easy.

Dominicka

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November 9, 2013 at 7:05 am #42652

I did the same, thinking it would be too hard to concentrate on school and a relationship. But hello, once you need support or need to get your mind off things, or just have a laugh or a cuddle, you are more than happy to have someone. Be bold and bring her some takeaway on a Friday night. She would not agree if you suggested it before, you try surprising her. If she reacts well, she reacted well. If not, maybe cool it off and let her come to you and chat her up sometime. Yea and keep the conversations positive, no blame.