Shoud I forget him?

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Shoud I forget him?

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    moissanite
    moissanite
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    December 15, 2019 at 11:45 am #226578
    Shoud I forget him?

    Hi.:)
    I’m 19, he’s 25 and we had summer affair. We spend a lot of wonderful moments together, but in September he come back to the Germany… He never promised me any feelings, said that our communication is not going anywhere, because of the distance. We chating untill now. However, I do not understand the purpose of our communication and our status, because he is flirting with me, but don’t suggest be a couple. He recently divorced with his ex due the distance, so maybe he afraid of realationship?

    elsandersson
    elsandersson
    Participant
    December 15, 2019 at 4:55 pm #226579

    Reduce the chatting with him, let him be the initiator for chat. Avoid sex chat and see what it is gonna happen

    moissanite
    moissanite
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    December 16, 2019 at 1:32 pm #226638

    He show the initiative in communication and said tha we are more than friends..

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
    Participant
    December 20, 2019 at 1:13 am #226831

    Most guys in their 20s are looking to establish a career, party with friends, watch sports, and get laid.
    The fact that he has been married and divorced by age 25 reinforces the fact he’s not ready to settle down.

    A “summer affair” is enjoyable and maintaining a connection with someone for potential hookups is normal!
    I wouldn’t read too much into any flirtatious banter. Odds are he’s also dating and have sex with {other women}.

    Stop “romanticizing obstacles” like the long distance. Find a guy who is local and wants more than friends with benefits.
    You need to keep your options open by dating other men. The summer has come and gone!

    Lcjams
    Lcjams
    Participant
    December 20, 2019 at 3:31 am #226835

    Yes ease off on the communication for a while and see if he is still wanting to initiate the chat then. That way you can tell if he is only just replying to your messages to be polite or if he is serious anout wanting to stay in contact.

    mafekeche
    mafekeche
    Participant
    December 22, 2019 at 6:41 am #226919

    why not

    BellaHH
    BellaHH
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    December 22, 2019 at 10:50 am #226925

    I would reduce how often you talk to him and see if he is putting as much effort in as you are.

    Littleone3
    Littleone3
    Participant
    January 15, 2020 at 3:54 pm #227880

    Currently trying to follow this advice with my own situation.
    Leave the communication, busy yourself with things you enjoy and if he truly holds you in his heart he will contact you.
    And even then think about not repliying straight away. Give it few days. Dont leave essays. You get what you think you are worth so if you thinl you are worth more then maybe he cant give you what you are worth. Good luck xx

    Suckatdating
    Suckatdating
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    January 20, 2020 at 6:53 am #228076

    Hi there..
    I agree with others here. Let him make the contact. You don’t have much choice then to just wait and see what he will come up with. Trying to force something will drive them away. Meanwhile why not go on new dates while you wait for him. I am just worried he will stay in touch until he start seeing a new one. Wish you good luck 🍀

    egg_head
    egg_head
    Participant
    January 28, 2020 at 12:40 am #228511
    Reply To: Shoud I forget him?

    As much as you might want to talk to him he might not be willing to go through another long distance relationship. Try and find out if it’s the distance or past relationship that’s holding him back

    sarah2020
    sarah2020
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    February 1, 2020 at 10:11 am #228763
    Reply To: Shoud I forget him?

    What I have learned over time is that there’s no use holding on to what isn’t there. I believe that if he wants you , he’ll come for you.

    Anonymous
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    February 12, 2020 at 8:21 am #229470
    Reply To: Shoud I forget him?

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