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maddiewilsonParticipantJune 16, 2014 at 12:42 am #55390
So about 7 or 8 weeks ago, I started talking to this guy at my University’s gym. I would see him about twice a week, and we would talk a lot, but he’s really shy so he didn’t ask me for my number.He definitely seems like he likes me, he gives off all the obvious signs and remembers everything I tell him, looks over at me a lot, smiles, laughs at all my jokes, etc. I was going to try and make a move and ask him for his last week, but he never showed up to the gym because it was finals week. I’m not going to be able to see him for another 3 months, and I feel like thats a long time without any communication. I found his last name by looking up his information on the school website, then found him on facebook. Should I add him, or would that be weird? Would he be creeped out that I found him because he never gave me his last name?
loveanonymousstyleParticipantJune 16, 2014 at 2:39 pm #55397
No risk no reward. Being that you will not see him for three months it is pretty likely that this is your only inroad. Do you have any common friends on FB? If not look through his and see if there is someone you can add first…that way it will appear you noticed him by coincidence 😉 Alls fair in the pursuit of love.
candycane22ParticipantJune 16, 2014 at 9:17 pm #55403
Go for it! He probably would be more happy to be in contact with you than he would be creeped out!
renzenParticipantJune 17, 2014 at 12:08 am #55407
No, Facebook adds issues and unnecessary insecurities..
headlightsParticipantJune 17, 2014 at 5:55 pm #55465
Unfortunately, I have to agree with renzen. In my case, I have OCD, and Facebook kinda did make that worse, believe it or not. Although you probably don’t have OCD, haha.
theriverweaselParticipantJune 18, 2014 at 1:24 pm #55536
I say you should add him! Most guys, at the least ones I talk to, are never bothered if I make the first move by adding them on Facebook. In fact, they seem more impressed
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