Should I ask her?

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Should I ask her?

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    brick-49
    brick-49
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    April 23, 2018 at 9:54 am #171382
    Should I ask her?

    Hello so here is my story. There is a girl who works at the bar I hang out at every weekend, she started about a month ago. She went to school with my brother and his friends so it was a bit easier to get to know her. She told one of my friends that she thought I seemed nice without them even asking and I think she may be sort of interested in me. This past weekend she got done working early and hung out with us. We played darts and I talked with her pretty much the whole night. I am normally a shy guy but the convo with her was very easy and seemed natural. I had mentioned I was meeting some friends for breakfast the next day and she said she “loved breakfast dates” I am thinking when I see her this weekend about asking her if she wants to have breakfast with me. Is this a good idea and what exactly should I say? I have not asked out a girl in a long time and I get really nervous when I do it so please any advice would be helpful!

    • This topic was modified 6 months ago by brick-49 brick-49.
    Jenny_brains
    Jenny_brains
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    April 23, 2018 at 12:31 pm #171438

    Yeah, sounds like she is in to you! I would just ask her if I were you. Just say ” I’m going to get breakfast tomorrow, would you like to join me?”. Or if you’re like me and my friends you could say “I’m going to get breakfast after this, would you like to join me?”. It sounds like if you had mentioned any meal she would have said that she liked it lol. Go for it! I get nervous talking to guys too so I just keep it simple and straight forward, it makes it easier. If you want to have breakfast with her than just ask if she wants to come.

    alexgriz7
    alexgriz7
    Participant
    April 23, 2018 at 3:08 pm #171477

    go for it!

    brick-49
    brick-49
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    April 23, 2018 at 5:25 pm #171448

    Thank you for the advice!

    Coach_Michael21
    Coach_Michael21
    Participant
    April 23, 2018 at 5:37 pm #171520

    If you’re feeling attraction to a particular girl, and she’s not totally creeped out by you, then you know what to do… Ask this girl out!!

    friesbruh
    friesbruh
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    April 27, 2018 at 8:55 pm #171786

    I would say no to the breakfast date. Try for something more active. That being said, ask her out because it sounds like she is hinting at it.

    adubthaman
    adubthaman
    Participant
    April 29, 2018 at 11:18 pm #171814

    Yes..Go for it

    IvanPeters
    IvanPeters
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    April 30, 2018 at 10:00 am #171833

    So, did you go for it? Let us know 😉

    Pattt1000
    Pattt1000
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    April 30, 2018 at 7:56 pm #171888

    of course

    brick-49
    brick-49
    Participant
    May 1, 2018 at 10:53 am #171920
    Reply To: Should I ask her?

    IvanPeters to answer your question I did not see her at all since I posted. She normally works one night per weekend at the bar but she was off both nights last weekend…go figure. She did like an instagram picture I posted Saturday though so that may be a good sing. I am planning to ask this Friday as long as she is working!

    brick-49
    brick-49
    Participant
    May 1, 2018 at 11:00 am #171921
    Reply To: Should I ask her?

    *sign

    ajanderson88
    ajanderson88
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    May 1, 2018 at 3:37 pm #171980
    Reply To: Should I ask her?

    shoot your shot and be confident!

    geralt
    geralt
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    May 2, 2018 at 12:46 am #171986
    Reply To: Should I ask her?

    go for it buddy 🙂

    Arne
    Arne
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    May 4, 2018 at 11:12 am #172179
    Reply To: Should I ask her?

    Go for it.