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[ColdBlade97Participant]

June 21, 2015 at 3:49 pm #81391

Should I ask her out?

So there is this girl who is my really good friend. We know each other for about 3 years. Recently I started having feelings for her and I wanted to ask her out. But then we found out she was in love with my best friend for a year and half and he turned her down. It made me doubt if I should ask her out or not? My best friend and her chat all the time so I am confused if he is interested in her or not. What to do?

[ColdBlade97Participant]

June 21, 2015 at 3:51 pm #81392

I would prefer girls answering but I men’s opinion is also welcome. Thanks.

[Anonymous]

June 27, 2015 at 5:35 pm #81700

Hi,

Has she hinted that she might have feelings for you as well? Honestly, I wouldn’t pursue it. I feel that if you do, you are the one that is going to end up getting hurt. Why would you want to be someone’s second choice?

[heelsnglamourParticipant]

June 29, 2015 at 9:57 am #81730

I don’t think u should. Mainly because things can be a bit awkward considering the mutual friend turned her down. In the end, I don’t see this having a good outcome if you were to ask her out. Someone better will come along & u won’t have any doubts.