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angi76ParticipantMarch 4, 2018 at 10:56 am #166786
I met a younger guy online who pursued me. It started out sexual but I couldn’t meet up at the time and we ended up texting and talking on the phone everyday for the next week until we met. He lives an hour away and is also new to the area so he wasn’t sure where to go but ended up suggesting a restaurant near his place. We’ve hooked up a couple times, a week apart on his days off, both times at his place. He has a roommate and no room of his own but I told him my place was off limits (I’m in the process of moving). The last time was two weeks ago and I initiated things so I don’t want to again. We’ve texted off and on and he’s nice and responsive when I reach out but he hasn’t mentioned getting together again. He has said multiple times he thought he bored me. He mentioned that he’s shy and I think he feels he has nothing to offer. I’m interested in getting to know him more, not just sex. Should I make the move and ask him if he wants to meet somewhere? (Like a real date)?
nancy_rowletParticipantApril 6, 2018 at 9:40 am #169776
I’ve dated a person younger than me- he was an explorer and it was embarrassing haha
PRWParticipantApril 6, 2018 at 2:05 pm #169832
Nothing wrong with you pursuing him and asking him out. But keep in mind what you are getting into.
We’ve texted off and on and he’s nice and responsive when I reach out but he hasn’t mentioned getting together again. He has said multiple times he thought he bored me. He mentioned that he’s shy and I think he feels he has nothing to offer.
When people tell you what they are like,…believe them. This is a low confidence insecure guy. He doesn’t have his own place with even his own room,…what does that say? This is not a strong leader,…more like a puppy that will follow you home hoping to be taken in. Puppies are cute, but what are you going to do with a puppy? You can try to work with him and push him to be more confident, to make the plans (without your help), and to take the lead, but it will be an uphill battle.
Your choice, but just keep in mind what you are signing up for.
Robansas96ParticipantApril 7, 2018 at 8:03 pm #169881
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darenmartinParticipantMay 17, 2018 at 9:39 am #174426
As you mention in your post that you are doing chat, phone calls with each other since a long time then you should ask him for a date without any hesitation. Might be he is waiting for you to ask first.
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