Should I ask HIM out?

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Should I ask HIM out?

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    Christina85864
    Christina85864
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    April 24, 2019 at 8:02 pm #199139
    Should I ask HIM out?

    There is this guy that I met on a dating app I was particularly interested in. We now have exchanged phone numbers and follow each other on Instagram. We’ve texted for three weeks now and he asked me out a couple times, but it just so happens I’ve been out of town for work. He kept in touch with me while I was out of town and we had really good conversations about things we were going to do together when I got back. After I was in town we finally nailed down a date to meet. And after allll that texting I didn’t hear from him all day that day. I had to reach out around 5:30 and say”hey did you still want to get together tonight?” He said he had to travel for work that day and just got back so it would be better to do something that weekend.. well, I had plans AGAIN to travel for work that weekend. Since I’ve been out of town so much and he’s taken initiative to ask me out a couple times, could I ask him out to meet for coffee? Or leave that up to him? He might have given up by now idk.

    alice_smith_seve
    alice_smith_seve
    Participant
    April 25, 2019 at 5:39 am #199143

    Hell yes! go out with him!

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
    Participant
    April 28, 2019 at 1:44 am #199355

    It’s 2019! It’s okay to ask a guy out to coffee….etc.
    Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

    If you don’t end up going out you haven’t lost anything.
    Best wishes!

    Staylee
    Staylee
    Participant
    May 2, 2019 at 9:54 am #199701

    Maybe he’s scared to ask you out. You won’t lose anything, you might end up in a great relationship or with a good friend. Worst case scenario you could realize he’s not worth your time

    mike p
    mike p
    Participant
    May 2, 2019 at 7:19 pm #199769

    Yes go for it.

    manjtns
    manjtns
    Participant
    May 2, 2019 at 9:17 pm #199771

    Yes please!

    0933832
    0933832
    Participant
    May 4, 2019 at 11:13 pm #199868

    Go for it

    confusedRomantic34
    confusedRomantic34
    Participant
    May 5, 2019 at 2:15 am #199876

    Definitely! Coffee date is casual and it can fit in your guys busy schedules better.

    tallglassofwater
    tallglassofwater
    Participant
    May 5, 2019 at 6:40 pm #199902

    Yes! Guys have no issue with being asked out

    easygoer333
    easygoer333
    Participant
    May 9, 2019 at 11:48 pm #200172
    Reply To: Should I ask HIM out?

    Definitely ask him out! If a date was already setup and had to be cancelled, then there should not be any embarrassment in asking the guy out.

    penah
    penah
    Participant
    May 12, 2019 at 3:37 am #200235
    Reply To: Should I ask HIM out?

    Absolutely

    itzpjx
    itzpjx
    Participant
    May 15, 2019 at 4:00 am #200400
    Reply To: Should I ask HIM out?

    Will need more info

    Mildmanner
    Mildmanner
    Participant
    May 19, 2019 at 11:59 am #200664
    Reply To: Should I ask HIM out?

    Why not nothing to lose

    ihavequestions8
    ihavequestions8
    Participant
    May 19, 2019 at 6:21 pm #200667
    Reply To: Should I ask HIM out?

    YES DO IT!

    lishaQuickQ
    lishaQuickQ
    Participant
    May 20, 2019 at 12:32 am #200670
    Reply To: Should I ask HIM out?

    Yes. IF he flakes he is probably ghosting you

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