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[Chlo]

November 11, 2016 at 4:47 pm #117120

Should i do it?

This guy hates being touched I love him and I wanna hold his hand. But should I just graze it to make sure he’s okay with it and see if he’ll grab mine or just go for it and hope for the best. I know he loves me or at least likes me but I just don’t know if he’d be okay with me holding his hand if he to,d me that he hates being touched. Or do you think that was a hint that he wanted me to touch him and he does like to be touched?

• This topic was modified 3 years, 2 months ago by  Chlo.

[jrivers]

November 12, 2016 at 10:14 pm #117139

He sounds chidish if he had strong enough feelings he would be reaching down to hold yours sooner than later

[zephyr002]

November 13, 2016 at 2:07 am #117142

Ditto. If the guy is even worth your time, he’ll be fine with holding your hand.

[open2advice]

November 30, 2016 at 9:02 am #118508

I think him telling you he hates being touched means he does not want to be touched. You should respect that.

[neh1992]

December 1, 2016 at 9:54 pm #118791

Be honest with him and let him know its somethinng that you want. If he can’t hold your hand what else will he not like? And ask him why he doesn’t like i6? There might be a good reason. But women need that in a relationship so you should find out before you get to attached.

[alissak]

December 2, 2016 at 8:28 pm #118965

Talk to him…. tell him what you want, and maybe he’ll agree

[Chlo]

December 7, 2016 at 12:59 pm #119352

Chlo wrote:

This guy hates being touched I love him and I wanna hold his hand. But should I just graze it to make sure he’s okay with it and see if he’ll grab mine or just go for it and hope for the best. I know he loves me or at least likes me but I just don’t know if he’d be okay with me holding his hand if he to,d me that he hates being touched. Or do you think that was a hint that he wanted me to touch him and he does like to be touched?
He is a huge joker so I don’t know if he was just saying that or really meant it.
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[revendel]

December 8, 2016 at 3:11 pm #119488

go a little more aggessive

[kayleighsophia]

December 10, 2016 at 11:45 am #119691

Reply To: Should i do it?

Be honest with this guy, let him know how you’re feeling and let him open up to you also.
Respect that he may feel that things are moving too fast, and he may feel uncomfortable with the situation.

[Anonymous]

December 11, 2016 at 11:27 pm #119720

Reply To: Should i do it?

I consider him telling you he dislikes staying involved suggests he appears not require to be involved. You should consider such.

[OpenMan1997]

December 12, 2016 at 9:20 am #119611

Respect his boudaries, for one. sometimes it might be cute and funny to bug him but he obviously doesnt like being touched for a reason…mabey you should ask? Learn more about him and develoup a relationship if you want to be with him.

[need2know]

December 12, 2016 at 5:20 pm #119883

Reply To: Should i do it?

I see it as someone who doesn’t want others to see the two of you holding hands because they will think the two of you are an item. In his mind, the two of you are not an item. Get it? I would move on since you’re not sure if his feelings for you.

[Chlo]

December 14, 2016 at 11:09 am #120113

Reply To: Should i do it?

need2know wrote:

I see it as someone who doesn’t want others to see the two of you holding hands because they will think the two of you are an item. In his mind, the two of you are not an item. Get it? I would move on since you’re not sure if his feelings for you.
Well he told me he is interested in me.
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[Chlo]

December 15, 2016 at 11:06 am #120271

Reply To: Should i do it?

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[Pealee Lew]

December 16, 2016 at 8:16 am #120372

Reply To: Should i do it?

It maybe better to ask him if you can hold his hand. Being touched/holding hands may have different meaning for him.