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whatupwhatupParticipantJune 1, 2017 at 10:18 pm #138167
Okay so to make a long story short, I’ve been sending dms to this girl (we’re both 20) who works for my parents, and whose best friend is a coworker of mine. My coworker told me that this girl kept asking about me, and after hearing that I dm’d her thinking she may be into me. So we talked for a bit and all of a sudden she stopped responding. The conversation was actually decent, but now i don’t know if I should shoot her a follow up message or if I should just move on. If I should follow up, what do I say after my last message was ignored?
NicoleMorganParticipantJune 1, 2017 at 10:54 pm #138168
What was the last message you sent ? Give it at least a week and see if she writes you back. Keep it short and simple. Depends what your last message was though
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whatupwhatupParticipantJune 2, 2017 at 12:24 am #138175
It has been a day and she saw the message. It said “seen”
mdawson24ParticipantJune 2, 2017 at 3:01 pm #138288
If yo never double texted her before then I’d just do it. I myself have made the mistake of accidentally reading someone’s message and forgetting to respond. Who knows what happened. If you text her and you guys talk and then she goes ghost on you again, then so be it. At least you tried tho.
JessCParticipantJune 2, 2017 at 6:48 pm #138357
I say text her again. If she doesn’t answer then you have your answer.
lostman1105ParticipantJune 3, 2017 at 8:50 am #138373
I would play it out, there are so many variables in play with this one.
lovelyLAgirlParticipantJune 3, 2017 at 11:24 am #138377
i agree, it depends on what your last message said…… but i read DM’s all of the time and also forget to respond. most guys i know send
a follow up if i don’t respond. no harm in shooting her another DM. if she then doesn’t respond to that, time to move on.
dula154ParticipantJune 5, 2017 at 7:53 pm #138509
it does depend on what was said, but give it a day or two and try to start a new conversation instead of the last one. maybe something said in the last convo didnt go over well with her so try to start new.
mnm12345ParticipantJune 5, 2017 at 7:57 pm #138511
I’d say go for it and see what happens. Or even if you are friends with her on Instagram, like one of her pics and maybe she’ll notice and remember that she forgot to message ya back.
Brokenhearted30ParticipantJune 5, 2017 at 10:17 pm #138523
Honestly, double texting shows interest. I don’t think it could ever be harmful unless if you start to seem too forward, which doesn’t seem to be the case yet. If they still don’t respond, give a few days between texts.
Zizi77ParticipantJune 6, 2017 at 12:39 am #138531
U should text her. If she didnt respond, u got ur answer.
DerekhhhParticipantJune 6, 2017 at 4:56 am #138541
From mountains of information I’ve learned from Self Improvement coaches, double texting is a no no. Texting is like a game of tennis. You hit the ball over and wait for her to hit it back. If she doesn’t, you walk away. If you double text, it seems needy, and that’s the number 1 attraction killer.
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