Should i fight or let go…

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Should i fight or let go…

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    mfernandam
    mfernandam
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    August 13, 2018 at 2:16 pm #181485
    Should i fight or let go…

    I love my boyfriend so much & would do anything for him. We’ve made mistake before, broken up yet we always end up coming back to each other regardless, i kept trying cause i believe in us & you FIGHT for those u love & never give up.

    The more i tried the more he began to drift away, and one day he said he didnt love me & didnt see a future with me anymore.
    Heartbroken, i let him go cause i also believe when you love someone,u set them free, right?. It tore me apart, i cant make him happy & i want him to be.

    2 wks after,I started moving on, though still in love with him. He came to me and told me he loved and ended up getting back together and i was happy again for a moment.Few months later I feel he is drifting away, again, he tells me he loves me, there is just so much we have to resolve. I tried to let him go again but he stayed, i cant leave him because i want to be with him

    I dont know if i should keep fighting or let him go forever…please help!

    mfernandam
    mfernandam
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    August 13, 2018 at 7:43 pm #181503

    thanks, that was all i needed…
    :'(

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
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    August 13, 2018 at 8:13 pm #181506

    “…he said he didnt love me & didnt see a future with me anymore.”
    “Should i fight or let go… ” LET GO!

    “We’ve made mistake before, broken up yet we always end up coming back to each other regardless…”

    The problem with a lot of folks is they “romanticize” drama!
    Their favorite adage is: “We can’t live together and we can’t live apart.”
    On some level they believe love is suppose to be messy and some part of them enjoys riding “the rollercoaster”.

    If someone truly loves you they’re not going to keep breaking up with you, telling you they don’t love you, and coming back.
    More importantly if you loved yourself you wouldn’t put up with be treated like this over and over again.
    You think the problem is you love him too much but the real problem is you don’t love yourself enough!

    “There’s a difference between giving up and knowing when you’ve had enough.” – Anonymous

    “Never love anyone who treats you like you’re ordinary.” – Oscar Wilde

    Move on! No contact rule!