Should I just cut him off?

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Should I just cut him off?

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    anonymousgirl1000
    anonymousgirl1000
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    January 25, 2018 at 4:14 am #163342
    Should I just cut him off?

    I’m 19, he’s 26. We met through mutual friends, but I’ve never seen him in person since he lives far away. We talk often, but sometimes it takes him forever to respond. It didn’t bother me until I noticed that he continues to post on social media and will even like my Ig pictures or watch my Snapchat stories. Still, I don’t worry too much because he does ALWAYS get back to me eventually. Our conversations are ongoing, so I never really have to reach out to him. He does try to keep the conversation going, so I’m not doing all the talking. English isn’t his first language, so he does struggle. Texting can get old though, so I mentioned FaceTime to him. He told me that he was in a meeting for work and couldn’t. He also mentions that most of his meetings are on that particular day. With his line of work, I could believe it. I just brushed it off and said that we could do it another time. He only responded with an emoji, so I just assumed that he just isn’t that into me.

    carolineroberts512
    carolineroberts512
    Participant
    January 26, 2018 at 10:25 am #163500

    Maybe you should try setting up a different time for FaceTime. Men tend to get really focused and preoccupied, especially whenever it comes to business. If he’s staying in contact with you consistently (every day or few days) then that says a lot. (:

    Jb1993
    Jb1993
    Participant
    January 27, 2018 at 2:14 am #163586

    If he’s anything like me, he honestly forgets to text back sometimes. Don’t overthink it. Try to figure out a way to bring it up without it sounding like an acusation

    Anonymous8
    Anonymous8
    Participant
    January 28, 2018 at 2:08 am #163615

    Maybe he’s just really busy. Just give him some time

    Sorae
    Sorae
    Participant
    January 28, 2018 at 2:58 am #163617

    wouldnt over think things! just let it play out

    ch1910
    ch1910
    Participant
    January 28, 2018 at 10:05 pm #163631

    Don’t over think things, maybe he is just busy.

    primo
    primo
    Participant
    January 29, 2018 at 6:44 am #163635

    since it’s just an online thing he can cut you off if he’s not interested so as long as he’s replying he must be interested in you so keep trying

    wisconsinretiree
    wisconsinretiree
    Participant
    January 29, 2018 at 8:59 am #163630

    His English is probably not good enough for him to feel comfortable on FaceTime. With text messaging he can even lookup words or use an English translation application,

    anonymousgirl1000
    anonymousgirl1000
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    January 30, 2018 at 12:42 am #163788
    Reply To: Should I just cut him off?

    @wisconsinretiree That crossed my mind too. Being billingual myself, there are times when it’s frustrating to communicate in the other language and I’m not always comfortable taking to people who don’t know any English at all. I always feel like I do much better with texting.