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LaRoyParticipantSeptember 5, 2015 at 4:49 pm #85158
So i met this guy online 3 months ago, we live in different countries and since then we became really close and we would talk almost daily, Lately he randomly started to kind of tease me, send me these emoticons alot ” :), ;), <3 and :* ” and he called me cutie last night and i think he said it on skype too with a really low voice right before he hung up. It’s making me crazy because he’s being really friendly at times but at other times he sounds rather indifferent and it’s really confusing, do you think he likes me or shouldn’t i take him seriously ?
oosoomParticipantOctober 7, 2015 at 3:27 pm #86656
He probably likes you but he’s realistic about the situation. Also a lot of women like to play games for the attention so he could be thinking about that as well. I say make a few hints that you may try and visit him and see how he reacts. If he’s all for it then there is a good chance he likes you.
mselizabethParticipantOctober 8, 2015 at 7:57 am #86688
I think he’s showing an interest but talking to someone online can be misleading. Since you live so far apart, the likelihood of a relationship forming is slim so I wouldn’t waste my time on this.
AnonymousNovember 25, 2015 at 9:07 pm #89004
He doesn’t take you seriously.
PaulParticipantDecember 19, 2015 at 8:07 pm #90319
he’s just flirting with you. find a guy within your area.. get to know him more in person.
divaoneParticipantDecember 26, 2015 at 7:25 am #90507
it makes more sense to meet someone locally, what are the odds you two will be together without all that travel?
pandorasbox84ParticipantJanuary 11, 2016 at 5:33 am #91411
I agree with meeting him x
INAMParticipantJanuary 14, 2016 at 10:23 am #91665
He is not showing enough interest.
GuyWhoneedshelpParticipantJanuary 14, 2016 at 3:11 pm #91697
Talking online is a thing but it’s fake feeling u getting from it. I think you should go to a lovely pub with your friends and yeah get your game up !
modernrapunzelParticipantJanuary 14, 2016 at 3:50 pm #91701
You need to be honest with yourself and with him. I’m not sure of your age, but as a 40 something year old, I can tell you (from lots and lots of personal experience) long distance relationships like this in this day and age with technology, usually don’t work out. I am not a therapist, but have had lots of it. That being said, I’ll restate what i said originally, you need to be honest with yourself and with him. Know what you want. Think about whether or not you’d move to where he is or visa versa. Then, and only then… you need to tell him how you feel about him and be prepared for a gr8 response or a lousy one. Why waste your time (remember you are precious even if you don’t currently believe it) and your time, your intelligence, personality, etc… are the only things you can rely on in life. Life is short. I was 18 years old only yesterday… I swear someday you’ll understand what I’m talking about. Go out with your friends and see what’s accessible close to your home.
lolabolaParticipantJanuary 15, 2016 at 8:39 am #91731
I done the whole online thing for about 6 months and it was a total waste of time he never actually wanted to meet in person. Just don’t spend too much longer on it.
AttritParticipantJanuary 27, 2016 at 12:51 am #92242
So many people on here meeting people in different countries…
hooligan.ronyParticipantJanuary 27, 2016 at 12:31 pm #92287
It was a total waste of time… find some one who really care about you… and who knows he should be almost around you…:)
angela2000ParticipantFebruary 1, 2016 at 2:47 am #92508
I think it might be a bit to far for him to travel. He will probably continue to do these things without intending to meet you. If you are serious about meeting someone I think you should confine your search to your country 🙂
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