Should I make a move?

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Should I make a move?

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    ordinarycontact
    ordinarycontact
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    February 19, 2018 at 7:54 pm #165951
    Should I make a move?

    I (25 M) matched with a girl (22 F) at the end of December on Tinder…she initiated the conversation and we exchanged about 10 messages each over the course of about 2-3 days, so not much went on. From the looks of her profile we seemed to have a few shared interests, so we were talking about baseball and it led to me asking about her work/school. For whatever reason she ghosted and did not answer one of my follow up questions (I had asked how she liked a relatively new job of hers).

    Fast forward to the beginning of February and I matched with her again, on Hinge this time. She messaged first, and we exchanged quite a few more messages over the next week. Things were going back and forth somewhat regularly so there was at least some connection there. I made the mistake, however, of not leaving a few responses open ended which may have led to her not responding again. It’s been a week since our last message.

    ordinarycontact
    ordinarycontact
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    February 19, 2018 at 7:54 pm #165952

    I’m wondering if I should just roll the dice and ask if she would want to take things offline, maybe something along the lines of drinks or coffee. I’ve never really made any meaningful connections on any app before and have never met someone from one in real life.

    sakurabunny24
    sakurabunny24
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    February 20, 2018 at 1:06 am #165954

    Seems like she’s not very interested but it’s weird how she matched and messaged you on a different app as well. I’d say ask her. Maybe she’ll respond, and if she doesn’t, you know she’s not worth your time

    MissJ
    MissJ
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    February 20, 2018 at 7:01 pm #166061

    Just ask her “How’s her week going so far?”. Wait and see if she replies. Personally, i would give her a couple of weeks because sometimes life happens and maybe she won’t see your messages. If you don’t hear back in couple weeks, then move on! 🙂