Should I marry him even if he criticizes my appearance?

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Should I marry him even if he criticizes my appearance?

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    mmonroe123
    mmonroe123
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    April 21, 2018 at 8:52 pm #171346
    Reply To: Should I marry him even if he criticizes my appearance?

    Yes! No one should criticize your body and this is a form of verbal and emotional abuse . Seems like he’s got a lot of insecurities and is trying to trap you . I have never tolerated this and neither should you

    matholimahlo
    matholimahlo
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    April 22, 2018 at 1:10 am #171347
    Reply To: Should I marry him even if he criticizes my appearance?

    It’s one of two things: either he feels extremely insecure and criticism is a mechanism of deflecting your eyes from what he feels are his failings, and establishing some measure of equality, or, he’s controlling and criticism is a way of breaking down your ego to give him supremacy.

    MadJack
    MadJack
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    April 24, 2018 at 10:57 am #171568
    Reply To: Should I marry him even if he criticizes my appearance?

    dump him.

    mottoman
    mottoman
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    April 27, 2018 at 9:02 am #171749
    Reply To: Should I marry him even if he criticizes my appearance?

    Run, Forest, Run… FAST. He’s a nut job

    chaoticmess13
    chaoticmess13
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    June 23, 2018 at 8:52 am #177816
    Reply To: Should I marry him even if he criticizes my appearance?

    Never even think about marrying anyone that doesn’t make you feel beautiful everyday. Never! Who tf is he to say shit like that. If you have this now, trust, you’ll be a hurting lady, at the end. That kind of guy is not good for any woman. I’d rather have a poor ass guy who made me feel like I was a queen, living in a box than a guy who even thought I needed to change. Egotistical for no reason. Nope let him go

    brokenAF23
    brokenAF23
    Participant
    June 26, 2018 at 4:59 am #177932

    Don’t worry about your age. Getting married is not a contest. Better leave that man before anything worst would happen.

    pisceslady89_
    pisceslady89_
    Participant
    June 26, 2018 at 6:10 am #177940

    He isnt a good man if he likes to criticize you. He knows that if he criticizes you you will have low self esteem and that he can control you. If i were you id run. Dump him. No good man and good future husband would want to be telling those kind of things to a girl that he loves. Heis a superficial guy.not worth the time and effort. He will get worse. Maybe he is a narcissist? Check out for that

    Starshine
    Starshine
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    July 2, 2018 at 4:28 am #178547

    I’ll put it this way: the next time you take out the trash, do so with him in mind. I can speak from my mother’s experience with my father and a man I once had a holiday fling with – this is NOT something you want in your life. You are worth so far more than that and are beautiful, ideal, spectacular and are just fine enough as you already are. A man like this, or any man for that matter, is not worth compromising your own value, self-respect and integrity for. Be truest to yourself above anyone else – always. Wishing you all the best!

    • This reply was modified 1 year, 4 months ago by Starshine Starshine.
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