Should I Say Hello In Person?

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Should I Say Hello In Person?

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    breby
    breby
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    October 10, 2019 at 5:56 am #223182
    Should I Say Hello In Person?

    I’ve seen a girl on a dating site who I see quite a bit in my local store, I think she recognizes me too. We’ve never sent any messages online, should i say hello in person?
    I can’t decide if that’s a bit weird or not…?

    Brrr in Alaska
    Brrr in Alaska
    Participant
    October 10, 2019 at 6:26 pm #223256

    It would be a lot weirder to send a message when you see this person face to face. t would show a lack of confidence to send a message rather than just say “hi” or whatever in person. You already have a conversation starter: The two of you on the same site.

    amanda11
    amanda11
    Participant
    October 11, 2019 at 4:01 am #223267

    Of course you should start the conversation. Because if you don’t do, nothing is gonna happen.So be generous, and start sincerely that you saw her on dating site.

    Italiana86
    Italiana86
    Participant
    October 20, 2019 at 6:27 pm #223748

    It can be so hard to put yourself out there, but if you’re interested, go for it! The dating site is one way to start the convo. But you don’t have to bring up the dating site if you feel like that’s weird. You can just say something like, “Hey, I swear we’re always in here at the same time!” and introduce yourself. Whatever tactic you take to do it, I think you should definitely say something. Otherwise, you’ll never talk to her!

    breby
    breby
    Participant
    November 10, 2019 at 1:04 pm #224942

    OK, so an update. I said hello, it went well, she said I should message her. I sent a msg on the dating site that I’ve seen her on, it’s been a week or so and I haven’t heard anything, but I don’t think she’s been on there for a while.
    She told me her name, and I looked her up on facebook.
    Should I send her a fb message? Or is that a bit creepy? 😯 don’t want to freak her out lol