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BRRParticipantJune 10, 2019 at 3:46 pm #201808
I haven’t been with a woman in over a dozen years. I’m approaching 40. I have a pathological relationship with my mother (who I live with). I have serious psychological diagnosees (anxiety, bipolar with psychosis, avoidant personality disorder, and a cannabis problem). I have no car and a very low status job. I have very little sexual or dating experience and haven’t had any sex for a dozen years.
However, I’m better mentally then I’ve ever been. I’m off the pot for good. I have a strong urge to talk to girls and I want to get on the horse and start dating. Should I wait until I get a car a and a better job? Should I wait until I move into my own place? This will all take a few years and I really don’t want to wait unless my position is just so poor that I’ll attract ladies with similar situations or worse.
If that is the case, I want a woman that is willing, able, and currently working on herself. I don’t expect anybody to be perfect or better off than me.
I currently feel like a p
richard obenzParticipantJune 11, 2019 at 6:34 pm #201898
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richard obenzParticipantJune 11, 2019 at 6:41 pm #201899
for me ever since i
lost my wife i dont think i can find any other woman that can love me like that a woman that will love me whit her true heart noing THAT I HAVE FIVE YEARS DOTER AND WILLING TO AXEPT HER AS SHE AXPTED ME
dashingscorpioParticipantJune 14, 2019 at 12:38 pm #202117
“I have a strong urge to talk to girls and I want to get on the horse and start dating.”
I believe your own statement answers your question: Should I start dating?
Yes, you’re going to have some serious challenges being a 40 year old guy living with his mother.
However I suspect you would not be the FIRST guy who lived with his mother, had a low paying job, and got a girlfriend!
Most likely you will have to adjust your sights and figure out what type of woman would want a guy in your shoes.
Odds are it will be a woman in a similar position as yourself. Not only would she be able to empathize she would “get you”.
She probably is NOT going to be a young “drop dead gorgeous” career driven woman with a lot going for herself.
There may even be niche online dating sites for people with avoidant personality disorder. Like attracts like.
If you post a profile on an over age 40 website or find some niche sites you never know what might happen.
Ultimately you got nothing to lose!
BRRParticipantJune 15, 2019 at 12:16 am #202156
I appreciate all of your replies! After discussing it with a number of people and I’ve decided to wait another year. I haven’t been off of cannabis for very long and it takes that long to get all of the seasonal triggers sorted out. That will also give me time to get a better job and be in a better spot overall. I want to jump on it, but waiting is the plan for now.
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