DatingAdvice Forum | Should I stop talking to my female fitness crush?

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justinarrog

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January 13, 2019 at 9:07 pm #192494

Should I stop talking to my female fitness crush?

Based on her dm’s, should I give up on her? She has opened her dm for me for the 1st time almost a week ago. She is a model who has 700k followers and follows 200-210ish people (actually she’s unfollowing more people).

However she left me on open after I told her to ignore the haters and that she’s getting followers because her content and her dog are amazing

She has her dm open for me from both of her accounts for my fitness account and from only one of her accounts for my personal account

She often posts sexy pics on her story and I hear from other dudes that guys are better if they send unsolicited dick pics and etc.

But here’s the thing (i tend to be on the safer side due to having my family, at least my mom, on my main account which i tagged in my fitness acct bio) (i’m strongly against any of my crushes blocking me and especially telling my mom I’m being a pervert, even though we’re both 18+)

dashingscorpio

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January 15, 2019 at 3:01 am #192591

Do not send any unsolicited porn shots of yourself!
Odds are this woman does not even like you in a romantic sense!

If you really thought she was into you you’d ask her out on a date.
On some level you know just because she is being friendly does not mean she wants to date/have sex with you.

If your fitness account is not a dating site then most likely she is not on it to meet perspective partners.
Most people have crushes on people they know they will never hookup with and enjoy the fantasy for what it is.
If you truly believe you have a shot with a woman CALL her up, have some conversations, and ask her out.
Simply befriending women because you believe they are “hot” will at best put you in the “friend zone”.

Asking a woman out is not perverted if you have established some real rapport.
At some point you have to be willing to risk being rejected. Women generally don’t throw themselves at guys.
In a world with over 7 Billion people rejection just means: Next!