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cooldudeParticipantNovember 24, 2013 at 12:13 am #43344
There’s this girl I really like and I’m ready to go up and talk to her. Now, normally when I like a girl and I talk to her for the first time I never reveal my feelings for her and talk about whatever just trying to be cool and fun. That’s not my style but some say that’s what woman don’t like men that just directly tell them they like them. I’m a straight forward, honest guy and say what I feel. I’ve never told a woman how that I have feelings for her, like her, of that sorts. Which is my style. So, should I tell her how I feel towards her? If so how should I say it?
jrmmp87ParticipantNovember 25, 2013 at 6:07 pm #43466
Ready to go up and talk to her? Have you ever talked to her in the past like casually?
AnonymousNovember 26, 2013 at 12:30 pm #43539
Don’t tell her you like her. Just talk to her casually first and try to invite her somewhere.. As long as she senses you are somewhat interested but not desperate, you are good.
Definitely go up to her though. There is nothing worse than regret.
PaulineRhodesParticipantDecember 4, 2013 at 2:46 pm #43921
Everyone talks about playing it safe, or not revealing your feelings or intent. Do you really believe women like guys who are indecisive? Everything I have studied, observed, and experienced tells me that women prefer men who are confident and bold. You might get told no, but if you act confidently your odds of getting a yes, or building interest skyrocket.
If I was in your shoes, I would just walk up to her and make a simple comment like this, “I like your personality and your style. I would enjoy going out for coffee and getting to know you a little better.” The worst thing that can happen is you get a simple no and let her know you are interested. Remember, a no today is not always a no forever.
gerpaciParticipantDecember 10, 2013 at 4:11 pm #44352
tell her how you feel. otherwise youll never know for sure. not knowing is the worst
lisa992ParticipantDecember 10, 2013 at 11:29 pm #44401
you should always go up to a girl and tell her how you feel…
confusedParticipantDecember 11, 2013 at 12:08 am #44407
Be friends first, then make your way up, but make your intentions clear soon!
TaylorParticipantDecember 13, 2013 at 6:08 am #44509
No matter what you may think your style is, or how flattering you think it may sound to tell a girl that you like her. Chances are if you do, she will be running for the hills. Men have a big problem with showering women with their feelings too soon giving an impression that they are well, wusses. It is a major turn off to girls when guys are so easy like that. Women like men who are mysterious, that get their attention,and make them all giddy and excited to see and talk to you because they never know what to expect. And One of those things girls think about alot is ”does he like me?” or “i wonder if he likes me as much as i like him” if you straught up tell her that at the get go, you will be taking away all the fun from her and most likely spoil the fun for your self as well. So my advice to you is, no dont tell her. Keep cool. Be nice, charming, polite, mysterious, fun and exciting. If you do all those things most likely she will be the one telling you that she likes you later.
AnonymousDecember 14, 2013 at 12:29 pm #44552
CrowParticipantDecember 14, 2013 at 5:20 pm #44560
try to talk about it casually first. good luck
AnonymousDecember 15, 2013 at 4:25 am #44566
ShyguyParticipantDecember 16, 2013 at 9:11 pm #44681
If you’re ready to talk to her, then take the mid-way. Sure chat her up a bit and set the mood of good spirits and being friendly, but don’t hesitate to ask her on a date, either.
Mimi94ParticipantApril 7, 2014 at 6:25 pm #44542
As a woman, I can tell you she would definitely prefer to know up front. Don’t be weird and like profess your undying love or something. lol Just walk up, start a conversation and be yourself. No gameplaying or trying to be “cool’. We HATE that. After a few casual conversations, tell her you think she’s really cute and would like to take her out sometime. Trust me, women prefer a direct man! It’s the manliest thing I can think of! 🙂 Good luck 🙂
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