Should I text her or let it be?

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Should I text her or let it be?

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  • Hayley Matthews Hayley Matthews
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    anonlover
    anonlover
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    May 26, 2018 at 4:36 pm #175393
    Should I text her or let it be?

    So about 5 weeks ago I slid in this girls dms and i actually got her to let me take her on a date. So i got her number and arranged a date for us to eat at a resteraunt. But i noticed shes not the type to text everyday, only for important things or when she wanted to go on another date. We basically have been taking turn arranging dates. So weve been seeing each other about once a week for the past 5 weeks, and things have been going good between us, we have a lot in common and get along nice, but i arranged the last date and as the pattern went before, it was her turn. But now its almost been 2 weeks simce our last date, which went amazing for both of us. I just dont get it, if she cared she would arrange a date or at least text to ask if we were gonna soon? So ive been trying to not come off as a creep and keep asking if shes into me and if everythings ok, but by doing that ive put myself in a position where we havent even spoken in a while, do i just let it fall off or text her

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
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    July 10, 2018 at 10:46 am #178867

    “..if she cared she would arrange a date or at least text to ask if we were gonna soon?”
    You’re right! If she (cared). Her actions or lack there of are an indication she’s not all that “into you”.
    If someone isn’t meeting you half way during the so called “infatuation period” of a budding new relationship move on!
    Two weeks without any contact speaks for itself. You shouldn’t have to always be the one initiating contact after 5 weeks of dating.

    Odds are she’s going out on dates with other guys which isn’t a bad thing.
    After all it’s not as though you two are in an “exclusive relationship”.
    For all she knows you may be going out with other girls. (Which by the way you should be!)

    Last but not least the primary purpose of a phone is {talking} with people.
    These days there’s an over dependence on sending quick text messages instead of having conversations.
    While on the actual date the two of you should have made plans for the following week if it was so amazing.

    carapc73
    carapc73
    Participant
    July 10, 2018 at 12:19 pm #178883

    I think you need to strip ask her if it has been bothering me this much. There’s really no point not to at this point.