should i wait for her ?

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should i wait for her ?

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  • Hayley Matthews Hayley Matthews
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    xnaff
    xnaff
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    January 22, 2018 at 11:18 am #163017
    should i wait for her ?

    this girl and i have been close for the past few months. we are so close to the point where everyone thinks we are dating. we always both have a part of our body touching one another. i told her about my feelings and she told me she wasnt looking for anything. i asked her friends what she meant by that. it turns out she had recently broke up with her ex because he wasnt sure if he still loved her or not. i told her i would wait for her to get over him and she didint have a problem with that. i cant give up now i mean ive gotten this far. i dont think ill ever find anyone like her shes one of a kind. what can i currently do ?

    richiro
    richiro
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    January 23, 2018 at 4:23 pm #163218

    she’s not lookin for anything so nothing will happen for now.
    therefore, look at other options until she says she’s ready to look for something with you.

    its the only way.

    if she says “no” to pursuing something with you, then you shouldn’t’ do anything to pursue her (including “waiting to pursue her”)…

    good luck.

    occult123
    occult123
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    February 3, 2018 at 3:05 pm #164434

    This happened to me before. She said the same thing as what you stated. But I didnt wait for her. I found new one and she found her new one. I think when she says “Not looking for new relationship right now”, it means “no.” Kaitlyn stated it properly.

    marktoner15
    marktoner15
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    February 3, 2018 at 9:50 pm #164438

    If you really love her maybe she had a best guy in her lift all you need to do is forget her and find new one

    cnash31
    cnash31
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    February 4, 2018 at 1:00 pm #164445

    Don’t wait for her, 98.9% of the time if a guy waits for a woman to decide if she wants to be with you, he will be waiting forever. Say to her “call me when you change your mind, until then I will move with my life and date other women.”

    Dragon Warrior
    Dragon Warrior
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    February 6, 2018 at 7:43 pm #164779

    She’s probably not interested in dating and would prefer to stay friends.