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bobman123

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October 25, 2016 at 11:49 am #115222

So confused

Right ive been talking to this girl for about week or so, I toke her on a date last night, we both had a good time, after the date she messages me first saying it was nice etc, then just stopped talking after a coupe messages, but has been posting stuff on Facebook and snap chat, also looks at my snap story, I don’t want to ask if she’s ignoring me, don’t want to look needy, she normally message like all the time before the date, is she playing a game, coz not sure what I’m meant to do

Messed up again 1525

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October 25, 2016 at 1:20 pm #115255

Just message her and ask her something, like how was your day or whatever you think of, it just shows you care. You won’t look needy as long as you don’t over do it, like keep messaging her ALL the time. I’ve just blew my chance with a girl because I wasn’t direct and I’m kicking myself. Don’t do the same!

windsoreight

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October 27, 2016 at 9:34 pm #115647

Kind of sounds like she is playing a game, I agree and would simply ask her.

JDreDD

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October 27, 2016 at 9:43 pm #115649

Showing you care is good, maybe somehow text or ask something that should get a response like , Hey are you interested in that concert or live music at this coffee house? If she can’t find time or a willingness to reply then this behavior is not needed by you so count your losses and be glad it’s minimal.