Started New Job and There's This Girl

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Started New Job and There's This Girl

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    GaspingDolphin
    GaspingDolphin
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    May 16, 2019 at 4:57 am #200479
    Started New Job and There's This Girl

    So I started a new job and there was this shy girl who didn’t speak too much and when she did it was very quiet, personally I like shy girls. We were both hired on at the same time, went through the same orientation, but she keeps looking at me, I think. I’ll turn my head toward her and then suddenly she’s moving her head somewhere else. Today will be day 4 of working together, and since day one I’ve managed to get her to open up a little and start talking to me and getting her smiling. I wanna try and ask for her number today but I’m not too sure if it’s still too early. What do you all think? Should I pursue her or not?

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
    Participant
    May 18, 2019 at 10:24 am #200648

    In my opinion it’s too early.
    You also have not had any meaningful conversations at this point.

    If you had spent time together talking on breaks, had lunch at the same table, or shared some laughs….etc
    That would be different. Working with someone allows you time to get to know them better.
    The majority of a person’s “awake time” is spent at work. Get to know her over time.
    There is no rush.

    Maddman2124
    Maddman2124
    Participant
    May 18, 2019 at 8:34 pm #200655

    It is honestly too early

    Bill2222
    Bill2222
    Participant
    May 18, 2019 at 10:53 pm #200658

    Tbh it really depends on the level of how much you two were talking, if you two were already getting very personal than just a general,
    ‘Hey we should hang out some time, here I’ll give you my number”
    But if you two have not started talking personally than it might be too early.

    • This reply was modified 2 months ago by Bill2222 Bill2222.
    Anonymous24
    Anonymous24
    Participant
    May 21, 2019 at 5:51 pm #200877

    Agree with the posters above, its to early and you dont want to rush things. Work can be a dangerous atmosphere anyways in today’s climate(depending on your profession i suppose), don’t rush things.

    The Dude
    The Dude
    Participant
    May 25, 2019 at 7:24 pm #201064

    Take your time, see if she acts the same ways around other colleagues, Try talking to her more and she if she responds.

    aray808311
    aray808311
    Participant
    June 15, 2019 at 6:45 pm #202163

    What kind of job is it?