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    sky moon
    sky moon
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    July 9, 2018 at 4:33 am #178735
    stranded

    I have dated this guy for almost 4 yrs in our first yr he had sex with a certain girlfriend of mine who didn’t know we were dating so she later on told me the had sex i was furious at him but managed to forgive him. he then again tried to hit on a another girl when i had traveled in our second yr of dating and found out when i came back we again overcame that and continued in our 4th yr he tried to sleep with my sister the did other things like kissing but before it went to far i found out and he tried to deny and my instincts wee so high i kept catching him in his msgs PS my sister is 18 i tend to feel he just played her emotions since shes naive. (you can tell me otherwise) so after this incident i was still soo much in love and depressed by their betrayal he even said it in my face that he wants to break up with me and date my sister. I was in denial for a while and i got to my senses early this yr which was 8 mnths later i suggested a breakup and promised myself to tame my emotions

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
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    July 9, 2018 at 9:10 am #178753

    If this (4 year) relationship began in your teens it’s par for the course.
    Very few people find their “soulmate” in their teens or early 20s for that matter.

    “our first yr he had sex with a certain girlfriend of mine who didn’t know we were dating,”
    “in our 4th yr he tried to sleep with my sister they did other things like kissing but before it went to far i found out.
    “he even said it in my face that he wants to break up with me and date my sister.”

    You sister may have been young but SHE still knew right from wrong.
    If you loved yourself enough you probably would have dumped this guy in year one when cheated the first time.
    Just because he did not have sex with your sister doesn’t mean that wasn’t cheating. Kissing someone else is cheating!
    Lastly you said (you) suggested a breakup but actually (HE told you) he wanted to dump you and date your sister!

    “Never love anyone who treats you like you like you’re ordinary.” – Oscar Wilde

    kris107
    kris107
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    July 11, 2018 at 2:48 am #178950

    I’m sure this is incredibly difficult to go through, and wish you the best of luck. This relationship sounds unhealthy, and I am glad for your sake that you have the opportunity to move on. I’m so sorry this happened to you