Stuck between and rock and a hard place!!


Stuck between and rock and a hard place!!

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    June 29, 2016 at 3:06 pm #104246
    Stuck between and rock and a hard place!!

    So my boyfriend and I have been together a little under 3 years and I have known about his illegal activities for about 1.5 years, he would never tell me in order to keep me far away from it as he said, although I have recently found out that his activities put him in a lot more danger than he ever lead me to believe and I have thought long and hard about what to do and I have come to the conclusion that I cannot watch him die and I cannot watch him go to prison but I don’t want to leave him. I figured it would be a hell of a lot easier to leave on my terms and start to move on rather than have him taken away from me all of a sudden. I have accepted that neither will be easy but I have also come to the realisation that he will never make it to 30 and he just turned 20. I know that I will not be able to make a life with him as he will not be here to live it and so my question is do I stay to the end with him or do I leave and try to make my own life before?

    July 1, 2016 at 10:03 am #104276

    This is a complicated situation so ultimately follow you gut and do what’s best for you. With that said, I feel you should leave on your terms. There’s no use waiting around until something bad happens. You leaving may just be the wake up call he needs. It isn’t right for him to drag you along on a roller coaster you never asked to be a part of even if he has tried to distance you from it. Good luck!

    July 5, 2016 at 7:57 am #104328

    Run away from your current life along with him and start a new life!

    July 17, 2016 at 4:40 pm #105521

    I would definitely leave if it were me I wouldn’t stay and wait to be devastated by some tragedy or prison sentence.