Super confused about a girl

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Super confused about a girl

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    monkeyguy8190
    monkeyguy8190
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    July 28, 2019 at 1:43 pm #204431
    Super confused about a girl

    I met a girl 5 months ago she told me she’s not interested in dating or marriage with anyone because she likes her space. I’m fine with that. Well within the last few weeks she’s been texting/calling me everyday and we’ve been hanging out nearly everyday. Seems like dating to me? We’ve even cuddled in her bed a couple times and played around but didn’t go all the way. But then last week we spent the night together and she didn’t want me to even cuddle her. We just slept in the same bed. So how do I go about asking her to either be friends with benefits Or date me without making her mad? I’m afraid she’ll get mad since she’s told me several times she doesn’t want to date anyone. But at the very least how do I ask her to be FWB?

    Brrr in Alaska
    Brrr in Alaska
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    July 29, 2019 at 6:56 am #204436

    Why ask at all? Just go with the flow.

    Intergenerational
    Intergenerational
    Participant
    September 16, 2019 at 11:11 am #207062

    It sounds like she isn’t willing to commit yet acts like that. She may need more time to discover what she wants in life. It’s not you it’s her own insecurities.

    Bilian
    Bilian
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    September 16, 2019 at 2:19 pm #207075

    go ahead

    Michelle Behrens
    Michelle Behrens
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    September 17, 2019 at 3:25 am #207141

    You have good reason to ask. I’d come right out and ask if she still isn’t interested in dating. Tell her you want things to be clear since you have been spending so much time together, and you want to make sure you don’t misread her intentions. It’s always best to make sure people are on the same page. Nothing wrong with that.

    Happy3917
    Happy3917
    Participant
    September 20, 2019 at 1:58 pm #207315

    If you don’t ask, you won’t ever know!

    DCSc2019
    DCSc2019
    Participant
    September 20, 2019 at 11:34 pm #207337

    Just give it time to occur naturally