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[Dragon Warrior]

February 6, 2018 at 7:52 pm #164780

Talking to/Asking out a crush

I could use a bit of advice. I’ve developed a crush on a girl I sorta know.

We were part of a wrestling forum, but never really interacted, From there, we were part of a Twitter chat. After that, we upgraded to a Slack chat.

We follow each other on Twitter, but don’t really interact other than me responding to the occasional tweet and us liking the other’s tweets here and there. But other than that, we’ve never actually had a one on
one interaction.

I find her funny, smart, and driven to succeed in both her personal and professional life. She’s even a huge sports fan and loves tools/carpentry, and she knows her stuff in it, all of which is like a plus to me. I also find her attractive.

Anyway, the only thing stopping me from going for it is:
1. She’s white and I’m black, so I don’t know if she’d be interested in that.
2. We’ve never spoken privately, so I don’t want to make it weird if she says no. And since we haven’t met in person, I don’t want her to think my intentions aren’t g

[huskyfan68]

February 13, 2018 at 10:11 am #165425

introduce yourself

[rhoda22]

February 15, 2018 at 7:43 am #165626

There’s never harm in giving a try.

[Dragon Warrior]

February 17, 2018 at 7:00 pm #165799

So how should I go about it? Should I just drop her a DM about something? Or should I build more of a rapport? Or something else?

[dragonblade392]

February 19, 2018 at 12:58 pm #165906

You should message and her and ask how she’s doing and if she wonders why you suddenly started talking to her, remind her of a time where you talked to her and you both enjoyed that time(if there is one). Oof I hope this was helpful

[dragonblade392]

February 19, 2018 at 1:01 pm #165908

oh yeah and then just keep talking to her, since you already know what she likes, that probably means she’s passionate about that, and you should find out if she’s single first if you wanna get at her

[Jesper]

February 21, 2018 at 11:21 am #166112

Give it a shot 🙂

[sinbad2011]

February 21, 2018 at 3:16 pm #166147

Move things forward. It is up to you as the guy to make things happen. She is probably curious about you, as you are about her. Assume she is interested in you and have fun. Suggest that you two meet somewhere in public to get to know each other better because it is what you want. You want to do what you want to do, don’t you? 🙂 Good luck!

[Dragon Warrior]

February 28, 2018 at 9:00 am #166537

Reply To: Talking to/Asking out a crush

Update sorta. I DM’d her last night sending a YouTube link. She was much appreciative. I didn’t say anything further as I didn’t want to trry too much too early, but I figure it’s a good start. At least now I know she doesn’t mind one on one conversations, even if brief.