Texting First Problems

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Texting First Problems

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    sherms5751
    sherms5751
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    February 23, 2020 at 4:52 pm #230328
    Texting First Problems

    My boyfriend and I have only been together for a few weeks but he has not texted me in 5 days. We just went out on Valentine’s Day and then he said he loved me. We have known each other for a while before we started going out. We texted for a few days after Valentine’s day but it felt like I was dragging him along in the conversation and it also felt dry and like he did not really want to talk to me. I started the last conversation and now it has been 5 days, what should I do?

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
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    February 24, 2020 at 4:13 pm #230376

    “My boyfriend and I have only been together for a few weeks but he has not texted me in 5 days.”
    Not many people these days are calling each other boyfriend/girlfriend after dating a (few) weeks.

    The primary purpose of a phone is to (verbally talk) to someone!
    If you’re a “couple” you shouldn’t have to wait by the phone to see if a guy texts you.
    Call him up and ask what’s going on.

    “after Valentine’s day.. it felt like I was dragging him along in the conversation
    ..and it also felt dry and like he did not really want to talk to me.” – Red Flag

    You know in your heart of hearts this guy is NOT “in love” with YOU!
    The first (few weeks) of dating is still the “infatuation/honeymoon” phase of a new relationship.
    Couples talk and laugh for hours, engage in flirtatious banter, and can’t wait to see each other.
    Neither person wants to do/say anything which might “blow it” with the object of their affection.

    “Never love anyone who treats you like you’re ordinary.” – Oscar Wilde
    Move on!