Things you might be doing wrong In dating

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Things you might be doing wrong In dating

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    lly223
    lly223
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    March 7, 2020 at 4:14 am #231073
    Things you might be doing wrong In dating

    There are so many misconceptions out there about dating and being in relationships that actually are not very true. the first thing you should know is “what works for relationship A will not work for B And vice versa, there is nothing wrong in learning New things and wanting to incoorperate it to your relationship but should know that if it does not work doesn’t mean your relationship is broken especially when it’s coming from a renown guru, you should just know that t not be for you… People are very different.

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
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    March 8, 2020 at 1:30 am #231090

    Excellent point.

    Life is a (personal) journey!

    Each of us (chooses) our own friends, lovers, and spouse.
    Each of us has our own mate selection/screening process and “must haves list”.
    Each of us has our own boundaries and “deal breakers”.

    Unfortunately during our youth we tend to pursue relationships without figuring out who (we) are!
    We have no real idea of what we want or need in a mate.
    We allow “impulsive connections” and “happenstance” to dictate our relationship choices.
    It’s almost the equivalent of going shopping without a list!

    When it comes to love and relationships most of us (fail our way) to success.
    Very few people hit a homerun their first, second, third, or fourth time up at bat.
    If this were not the case we would all be married to our high school sweethearts!

    Last but not least what made for an “ideal mate” at ages 16, 18, or 25 may not be what you want at age 35 or beyond.
    People evolve over time. Know yourself, Love yourself, Trust yourself.

    Some folks need help with figuring out what (they) really want.
    Life is too short to be trying to change water into wine.
    The goal is to find someone who (already is) what you want.