Tinder: matched with friend. Should I message him?


Tinder: matched with friend. Should I message him?

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    February 10, 2014 at 6:39 pm #47553
    Tinder: matched with friend. Should I message him?

    I had class with this guy last semester. I had the hugest crush on him. Not only was he cute, but we had a lot in common and he was always very nice to me. I’m not forward and it’s hard to tell when I like someone.
    The other day I was on Tinder, and he showed up on my screen. Just for the heck of it, I decided to heart him only to find out, he hearted me back! But heres my dilemma. I want him to message me but I think he prob feels as awkward as I do. I also don’t know his intention of hearting me (did he heart me to see if i heart him, did he heart me cause he knows me, OR did he heart me cause he thinks i’m sure and possibly feels the way i do) It’s just an awkward situation now cause we both now know we find each other attractive (if that was his reason for hearting me.)
    I don’t have class with him so I don’t really see him, but I still like him. Should I message him? The only thing I have to lose is him ignoring me or thinking I’m weird. Then again, he hearted me too..