to text or not to text

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to text or not to text

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    bellamae
    bellamae
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    August 15, 2015 at 7:44 pm #84160
    to text or not to text

    I met a guy for coffee on Thursday and had a lot of fun, we talked for 2 hours and had a great time. Toward the end of the date he explained he had friends coming into town but that he wanted to get together next week. I don’t want to come on to forward, but would like to text him. could i just send a short text saying i had a good time, or should i wait for him to text me? If I do send a text what should I say?

    as you can probably tell i don’t have a lot of experience dating, and have no idea what to do :3
    jess38
    jess38
    Participant
    August 21, 2015 at 7:00 pm #84552

    Just text him, it seems silly not to if you want to.

    Datguy
    Datguy
    Participant
    August 22, 2015 at 5:58 pm #84564

    Just send a quick text saying “I had a good time, How are you doing?”
    that-girl-over-there
    that-girl-over-there
    Participant
    August 22, 2015 at 8:49 pm #84572

    text him. say something like “hey i had a great time the other day we should do i again soon” and wait for a text back and if he doesn’t then you know….
    Anon56
    Anon56
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    August 23, 2015 at 9:55 am #84585

    You should text him, but something low key as everyone else is saying.
    gingerpwnage
    gingerpwnage
    Participant
    August 23, 2015 at 9:10 pm #84596

    Text him and get something planned. Say like “hey what do you think about getting dinner next Friday?” Or something like that.

    brightmom
    brightmom
    Participant
    August 24, 2015 at 7:39 pm #84691

    You could text him and say something like, “Had a great time on our date. Hope you’re having fun while your friends are in town. Would love to get together again sometime.”

    Hyperion567
    Hyperion567
    Participant
    August 25, 2015 at 4:03 pm #84762

    text him, it could not hurt. Just say”Hi! How are you doing?”
    teadrinker
    teadrinker
    Participant
    August 27, 2015 at 1:09 am #84856

    No harm in sending him a short text.
    Wanderlust22
    Wanderlust22
    Participant
    August 31, 2015 at 11:01 pm #84991
    Reply To: to text or not to text

    Text him. You’re not making a mistake. The mistake would be to not text him. You could ask, “Hey there! Are we still on for Saturday/whateverday?”. Like that you are not asking him out, but you’re reconfirming. Working out your schedule. Be brave, take a deep breath and give it a go.
    maria
    maria
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    September 1, 2015 at 1:11 pm #85007
    Reply To: to text or not to text

    You can check the Text ideas on the link.
    missbliss
    missbliss
    Participant
    September 3, 2015 at 12:15 am #85032
    Reply To: to text or not to text

    Dont hold back! If you want to, do it. If he thinks you’re coming on too strong then he’s not worth your time because there’s absolutely nothing wrong with it.
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