Too busy to make time for me

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Too busy to make time for me

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    alc2210
    alc2210
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    August 26, 2019 at 8:26 am #206115
    Reply To: Too busy to make time for me

    Communication is extremely important. Personally, I like people to be direct and honest. I had an issue with a girl ghosting me after a first date, but no unfriending/unmatching me. Proper communication is something that is lacking these days. I would go and find someone else.

    Mr Courting
    Mr Courting
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    August 27, 2019 at 2:36 pm #206179
    Reply To: Too busy to make time for me

    This is a dead end. I have experienced it so many times over the years. It’s a two way street that requires a concerted effort on the parts of both people. Clearly he doesn’t understand this. It’s not worth continuing.

    cyclesaround
    cyclesaround
    Participant
    August 28, 2019 at 7:00 am #206221
    Reply To: Too busy to make time for me

    From my experience of over the years, there are few real excuses – if a man wants to see you he will make the time…sorry!

    wabbit
    wabbit
    Participant
    August 28, 2019 at 7:21 am #206225
    Reply To: Too busy to make time for me

    It is true that woman and man see things differently… from his point of view, you ARE blowing things out of proportion. But the most important thing is what you want… and that’s something you didn’t specify. Seems to me he just wants relationship without commitment… if that is ok with you, you should go on… if you want something more serious… skip, move to the next guy in line 🙂

    taytay
    taytay
    Participant
    August 28, 2019 at 9:46 pm #206295

    Move on he sounds exactly like my friends boyfriend if he isn’t putting in the effort to see you then its just not worth your time if someone likes you then they would drop anything to see you or talk to you.

    Gelicky
    Gelicky
    Participant
    August 29, 2019 at 2:41 pm #206378

    I watched this video by famous Matthew Hussey with iHeart radio (What He Really Means When He Says He’s “Too Busy). He answered your question directly with a touch of reality. Let me quote him a bit: “You asking this question is really asking the wrong question. The right question is where do I sit right now on his list of priorities…” Watch and decide on your next move just like I did.
    Some men just wont have time for you until you start dating their best friend. Thanks

    LeeVerstibule
    LeeVerstibule
    Participant
    August 29, 2019 at 5:18 pm #206382

    As a dude, if I was really interested in a girl I would make time to talk. And all of my friends are the same too. It really doesnt sound he is interested enough.

    NicoleisTall
    NicoleisTall
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    October 13, 2019 at 9:31 pm #223363

    Sounds like he might already have a girlfriend. Cut him off.

    Synergia
    Synergia
    Participant
    October 16, 2019 at 8:01 am #223516

    It’s all about priorities, not about time

    ink6568
    ink6568
    Participant
    October 20, 2019 at 2:34 pm #223744

    Give him a chance. 🙂

    littlekitty91
    littlekitty91
    Participant
    October 21, 2019 at 1:21 pm #223788

    He’s a time waster

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