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    December 26, 2016 at 10:49 am #121069
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    I’m going to avoid interpretation or opinion, and also asking questions. I want to provide a timeline of facts minus interpretation or perspective for you to give an unbiased view. If I ask questions that will only direct your thinking.

    Timeline as follows over 1 year:
    -Went to the works office party to ask out a specific person then could not find her at the party.
    -Told her friend I was looking for her who then later passed on that information.
    -I was told by a mutual friend she was married and it says this on her FB profile.
    -A week after this she moved to my office however I had made a decision to move on believing she was married.
    -She continued to show signs of interest which factually can only defined as direct lacking subtlety I did not draw her on but applied minimal conversation only when she spoke to me.
    -I moved offices 4 months after in April upon which time she was asking close friends about me -My close friend asked what I thought of her to which I replied honestly “she

    December 26, 2016 at 10:50 am #121070

    is beautiful and seems to have a lovely personality”
    -My friend reported this back which was greeted with big smiles and blushes she changed the subject of the conversation.
    -My friend has known her for some years and advised this was out of character for her and was as if she did not have much male attention.
    -She asked in private about the reaction to which the lady in question stated she could not understand my reaction as if she herself did not believe she was attractive.
    -Fast forward further down the line I was single again at which point her attention seeking behavior continued and I backed off again.
    -Talking with her became awkward as she became short with me.
    -She moved offices to a place where I can’t stay in touch so I sent her a request and message on FB. -By now its Nov.
    -She wasn’t so I emailed her so I emailed advising if I don’t talk by 23rd dec she should have a good Christmas.
    -She waited 5 days and on the 23rd had her “fella” text me to stop sending messages.


    December 27, 2016 at 9:33 am #121071

    she told my friend she is single I forgot to add that.