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    December 2, 2015 at 4:56 am #89230

    15 years later, I ran into my first girlfriend by accident ( both saw each other at a small class) . She was the only girl I ever was intimate with that claimed she was a virgin (this was in high school). It was a terrible emotionally disturbing relationship and it was only years later that I believe she might of been sexually abused by her father.
    I did not have intercourse with her because of religious reasons. But I do remember penetrating her digitally with my entire middle finger, there was no barrier and no blood ….is this possible with a virgin? (I guess she could of lost her hymen by other means though).
    I found seeing her again, to be extremely disturbing, it brought on a rush of bad memories (her father broke us up)…which led me into depression since we talked about being married one day. She has since married /child and stayed married.
    This fact that I was so disturbed (still am days later)…mean I still love her? I have never married.

    December 8, 2015 at 1:45 pm #89730

    I think its possible for there to be no blood.