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[silentone135Participant]

July 2, 2014 at 12:35 pm #56728

Was it a date i just had with her?

So i’m a little lost on this one. I started talking to a old friend on facebook again after like 15 + years. She is divorced with 2 kids now. We had been talking for like a week and one day I said “hey, what does your schedule look like next week? She told me what days she was working and I said to her “ok it would be cool for us to go to dinner after I get out of work Monday sound good?” she said yes. We pick a outdoor play to go to and a picnic. I figured we where just getting some stuff at the place. She ends up bringing everything for it. blanket, grapes cheese that she took the time to cut up a few different kinds, as well as a few kinds of crackers and a bottle of chilled white wine. We eat by the water talk and laugh a lot. Finish off the wine and go up to the play. Had a great time at the play talked a bit more as we left. I walked her to her car talked laughed and said good night with a hug. So stupid question, was that a date or normal and I just don’t know it?

[0ldhagParticipant]

July 2, 2014 at 6:38 pm #56730

What’s the point in figuring out what is was? Sounds like you both had fun. Ask her out again, and just go with the flow rather than analyzing it.

[jessica172Participant]

July 3, 2014 at 4:28 pm #56754

Ask her out again, her reply will only answer you..

[SBSDParticipant]

July 5, 2014 at 3:01 am #56782

yep

[Anonymous]

July 5, 2014 at 6:33 am #56791

you should show your sincerity so that the girl will have to trust you.

[Noobie123Participant]

July 24, 2014 at 9:00 pm #58196

Yes

[jet8419Participant]

August 11, 2014 at 9:21 pm #59222

Try asking her out again.

[kajla00007Participant]

August 14, 2014 at 5:51 am #59436

no, it was not a date. Its just a normal meeting dear.

[8and8Participant]

August 14, 2014 at 10:53 am #59446

In my opinion it is a little odd to go out with a single woman and not have it established before meeting, whether or not it is a date. Dinner is usually a date unless otherwise specified. The best way to find out is to ask her on a date. Then you’ll know for sure.

[KlickBack23Participant]

August 15, 2014 at 11:21 pm #59496

Reply To: Was it a date i just had with her?

It depends on how you feel.

[ebrooklynkidParticipant]

August 18, 2014 at 8:48 am #59490

Reply To: Was it a date i just had with her?

If this wasn’t a date then next time make it one. Simple as that.

[lovebug1Participant]

August 20, 2014 at 2:56 am #59699

Reply To: Was it a date i just had with her?

Sure sounds like it to me. But at the same time, the problem is that there is so much emphasis on whether or not that a date is a date that no one gets anywhere anymore. I’ve had a similar situation happen to me once and I thought it was a date. She prepared all these things, had her hair done and dressed to impress. In the end she was just doing all these things because that’s just who she was. She was surprised when I told her that she was pretty. She said that it wasn’t a date. Women play games. They do it all the time. Who knows what she wants! Perhaps it’s just a way for her to feel sexy and needed again without having to do anything else or expect anything from you. I say just ask her out again. Have a nice night and then lean in for the kiss at the end. If she says no, then lose her number and forget about the woman.