was she leading me on

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was she leading me on

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  • Hayley Matthews Hayley Matthews
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    fae11
    fae11
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    December 13, 2018 at 6:06 pm #191049
    was she leading me on

    last year a girl i liked was interested in me. shes the first girl ive ever really liked openly as i only came out last year and was used to hiding my sexuality. wed flirt but were too hesitant to try anything. never did anything, she held my hand and would hint around about dating. shes the type of person who flirts with everyone. sometimes she was clearly interested in me but others shed become real distant and wouldnt talk to me. id ask her about it and she said “im distancing myself bc i dont want rumors to spread and my cousin (a teacher) to find out and tell my grandma” i told her i could wait or keep our relationship a secret if we dated. shed flirt with this one guy a lot. this year i was a lot more open about flirting with her and so was she. i went over to her house and spent the night. we didnt do anything. just watched movies and held hands. she ended up telling me she doesnt want to date. just wants to flirt around in hs. now shes dating a guy. i still like her. it hurts.

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
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    February 24, 2019 at 11:17 am #195478

    “..shes the type of person who flirts with {everyone}.”

    “she said “im distancing myself bc i dont want rumors to spread”
    ” she ended up telling me she doesnt want to date.”
    “..shes dating a guy.”

    It does not sound to me as if she was leading you on nor did she have intentions to hurt you.
    It sounds like she may have been slightly (curious) but was not actually ready to {explore}.
    As you didn’t mention your or her age odds are she’s young. Anyone concerned about what (grandma) thinks isn’t grown.

    Move on….
    “Never love anyone who treats you like you’re ordinary.” – Oscar Wilde

    In a world with over 7 Billion people rejection just means: Next!

    whitewave90
    whitewave90
    Participant
    March 28, 2019 at 12:41 pm #197856

    I think for your own sake move on for now, she still could be figuring things out. but whichever way you deserve to be happy so look after your self 🙂

    pathetic101
    pathetic101
    Participant
    March 29, 2019 at 8:14 am #197908

    you could just stay friends with her and maybe tell her that she should stop flirting with you if its making you uncomfortable and gives you false hopes…

    anon515
    anon515
    Participant
    March 30, 2019 at 1:00 am #197942

    maybe now’s a good time to focus on yourself

    homoalone
    homoalone
    Participant
    June 10, 2019 at 1:20 pm #201790

    Maybe stay friends with her, and take time to focus on yourself.

    lonelylesbian
    lonelylesbian
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    June 15, 2019 at 7:01 pm #202164

    I agree with homoalone