Was this rude of her?

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Was this rude of her?

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  • Hayley Matthews Hayley Matthews
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    jm123098
    jm123098
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    June 13, 2019 at 3:14 pm #202035
    Was this rude of her?

    So I’ve been seeing this girl and an instance happened the other night, this would have been the 3rd time I seen her.
    So we were chilling at her house and all that and she said my Adam’s apple was odd, I told her I was self conscious about it and we were grand. So later on in the night she said I’d a “five-head” referring to a big forehead. Then she asked if I washed my face to which I replied I get showered every day so not really my skins not that bad and she replied “I think you should it’s really oily”. These comments did make me feel uncomfortable granted you could see the fivehead thing as a joke but I felt like it was a bit much when this was only the 3rd time seeing her. Do I confront her about it as it’s really made me take a step back.

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
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    June 14, 2019 at 12:55 pm #202118

    You said you have “seen” her three times.
    Is this a platonic relationship? Romantic relationship? Have you kissed? or Had sex?
    From what you have described of her it doesn’t sound like she is into YOU!

    If I were you I wouldn’t bother confronting her. I wouldn’t step back. I would move on and never look back!
    You get to choose who you spend your time with.
    Anyone who invests time pointing out all of your “perceived physical flaws” thinks you’re not good enough.

    You’d be wasting your time trying to (get her to change who she is) or how she determines beauty.
    Essentially she’s told you that you have an odd Adam’s apple, big forehead, and oily skin.
    If she’s obsessed with your physical appearance on some level she is telling you she’s NOT attracted to YOU!
    At this stage you are within your rights to simply ghost her or vanish. Three dates does not require closure.