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xxaccxxParticipantDecember 5, 2017 at 11:31 pm #159173
I’ve been chatting with this guy I’ve met on a dating app for 2 months now. Almost everyday we text one another , asking how each other’s days are going. We had an offficial date-just getting coffee. The next weekend he asked to come over. We watched a movie and had a heavy make out session. I had a mixture of emotions the next day because during that makeout session he kept pulling back and staring into my eyes. Texting occurred the next few weeks without any plans to meet up (he travels a lot for business). This past weekend he asked to see me and came back over , another movie/make-out session but this time we had sex. I’ve never done a hook-up/casual dating before so now I’m panicking a bit. He texted me that he made it home afterwards. The next day he tried striking up a conversation. I ignored his text for a few hours because I was processing how I felt about him. I replied back-no response. Today I reached out – no response.
xxaccxxParticipantDecember 5, 2017 at 11:33 pm #159174
Background info that may be useful: I’m 23, he is 33. He is also foreign ! So deciphering his behavior is a bit difficult because of the age gap and being foreign. Am I a casual hook-up or do you think he’s looking for relationship material ?
Dx1991ParticipantDecember 6, 2017 at 10:34 pm #159315
Hard to say from my perspective. Give it 24 hours and then reach out, if still nothing then he could have been using you which hopefully is not the case.
Morphious1ParticipantDecember 7, 2017 at 2:42 am #159330
It seems like he put a lot of effort into the online communications, and then has carefully messaged you afterward saying he made it home alright, looked you in the eye, didn’t try to have sex on first date, and is still trying to communicate. I’d say he wants a relationship.
koncrete_roseParticipantDecember 10, 2017 at 9:08 am #159591
Doesn’t sound like he wants a relationship. A lot of online chatting and then straight to coming over? Hmm.
DisillusionedParticipantDecember 10, 2017 at 9:37 am #159592
Wish I could help with that one. See how long it goes before he answers your text. I can’t make heads nor tales of this one.
may16ParticipantDecember 10, 2017 at 2:44 pm #159609
Try texting him and dont jump into any conclusions, maybe he’s overthinking it as well. It might also be the case that he was just using you, but you cant be certain untill he just answers and you subtly ask him
lilacwine92ParticipantDecember 11, 2017 at 2:52 am #159625
I agree with the above. Try reaching out again.
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