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Remay19ParticipantJuly 14, 2018 at 5:20 pm #179351
So this girl and I were chatting on snapchat, when I asked her out she said no because she was chatting with another guy, and didn’t want to string me along (fair enough). Then over a year goes by (not going to lie I kind of forgot about her) and I’m on this dating app, and who should I find on their besides this girl. I still have her on snapchat, should I try messaging her again? But I also don’t know if there actually was another guy she was talking to, or if she made that up? Any advice on this is greatly appreciated, thank you!
Coach_Michael21ParticipantJuly 17, 2018 at 10:16 am #179552
You can try to chat with her again. Who knows, maybe she and this other guy have since broken up? If the reason she was saying no was because of the other guy, then it’s possible something might develop here. If, on the other hand, she said no because she wasn’t attracted to you, then you need to let this one go and meet other girls.
By all means, message her. But don’t expect much. If nothing happens, move on.
dashingscorpioParticipantJuly 17, 2018 at 12:22 pm #179578
Coach_Michael21 is right.
If you feel you must give it a shot go ahead and message her one last time.
If she’s receptive cool and if not move on.
Some people tell “white lies” to avoid hurting other’s feelings.
The old: “It’s not you, it’s me…” (When really it is YOU they’re not attracted to.)
Don’t get caught up on whether or not there was another guy or not.
Ultimately she didn’t want date or get involved with (you) at the time.
Go ahead and test the waters to see things may have changed.
You’ve got nothing to lose.
- This reply was modified 1 year, 6 months ago by dashingscorpio.
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