WHAT DO I DO?!?!?!

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WHAT DO I DO?!?!?!

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    Remay19
    Remay19
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    July 14, 2018 at 5:20 pm #179351
    WHAT DO I DO?!?!?!

    So this girl and I were chatting on snapchat, when I asked her out she said no because she was chatting with another guy, and didn’t want to string me along (fair enough). Then over a year goes by (not going to lie I kind of forgot about her) and I’m on this dating app, and who should I find on their besides this girl. I still have her on snapchat, should I try messaging her again? But I also don’t know if there actually was another guy she was talking to, or if she made that up? Any advice on this is greatly appreciated, thank you!

    longjohns22
    longjohns22
    Participant
    July 16, 2018 at 8:42 pm #179513

    Chase other women.

    Coach_Michael21
    Coach_Michael21
    Participant
    July 17, 2018 at 10:16 am #179552

    You can try to chat with her again. Who knows, maybe she and this other guy have since broken up? If the reason she was saying no was because of the other guy, then it’s possible something might develop here. If, on the other hand, she said no because she wasn’t attracted to you, then you need to let this one go and meet other girls.

    By all means, message her. But don’t expect much. If nothing happens, move on.

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
    Participant
    July 17, 2018 at 12:22 pm #179578

    Coach_Michael21 is right.

    If you feel you must give it a shot go ahead and message her one last time.
    If she’s receptive cool and if not move on.

    Some people tell “white lies” to avoid hurting other’s feelings.
    The old: “It’s not you, it’s me…” (When really it is YOU they’re not attracted to.)

    Don’t get caught up on whether or not there was another guy or not.
    Ultimately she didn’t want date or get involved with (you) at the time.
    Go ahead and test the waters to see things may have changed.
    You’ve got nothing to lose.

    Remay19
    Remay19
    Participant
    August 1, 2018 at 8:43 am #180594

    Update: I messaged her and she left me on read. Not really surprised so I deleted her so I don’t get tempted to try again.