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[mselizabethParticipant]

October 12, 2015 at 5:47 am #86794

What does "we'll see" mean?

To the point – I had sex with this guy on our second meet-up but he texts soon after with a “that was awkward” and so I suggest something like third times a charm, in which he replies with a ‘we’ll see’…should I take that as him not interested? This actually happened a few weeks ago, and I’m not interested in anything serious, I just want a casual fling. What’s a short message I can send him, other than hey…

[Anonymous]

October 19, 2015 at 2:06 pm #87060

better forget him 🙁

[Spartan117Participant]

October 19, 2015 at 6:33 pm #87086

It’s a possiblity

[dorina121212Participant]

October 19, 2015 at 9:09 pm #87097

I am not an expert (far from!) but “we’ll see” to me has a connotation that he is not interested ;(

It seems he is not taking this seriously, and is not interested if he did not call for weeks… but if you are truly only interested in a casual fling, there is nothing to lose by texting him to say How are you?…

[JustinParticipant]

October 23, 2015 at 1:51 pm #87265

If your just interested in a fling, than it’s hard to get any emotional attachment. I would make friends with guys that are more interested in getting to know you better as a person and show you respect. That comment “we’ll see” sounds flaky,,,and it’s not your fault, it’s his issue. Set a higher standard. Hope you get want you want 🙂

[Joe83162Participant]

November 3, 2015 at 10:13 am #87826

Sounds like he was trying to be flirty and joking did you ask him what he meant by that??

[JD123Participant]

November 13, 2015 at 1:44 pm #88442

if you haven’t spoken in a couple weeks it’s probably that he’s not interested although I’d suggest giving him a call to arrange a hook up. at least that way you’ll know