What is up with this guy? And What should I do (He's 27, I'm 25)


What is up with this guy? And What should I do (He's 27, I'm 25)

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    February 27, 2017 at 3:39 pm #128415
    What is up with this guy? And What should I do (He's 27, I'm 25)

    Guy is away at graduate school right now, but is from this area, and his family is here. We text almost every day initiated by him always. We have the flirting thing down pat, but the getting closer and deeper emotionally seems lacking. I would like to get to know him as a person, and for him to know me, because I have a lot to offer and think he would really like me.

    Here is an example of a conversation we had this past weekend:

    Him: Hiiiii
    Me: Hello Hello there, whats up?
    Him: Just on the bus for soccer again
    Him: How was your event at work
    Me: Not as many people showed up as I had hoped, but my boss must have been happy, he bought us dinner and drinks after
    Him: Wow thats always nice
    Me: Haha note to self, don’t drink multiple beers and then decide to go workout
    Him: Hahahaha noted
    Me: Where are you headed for school
    Him: **location
    Me: Ohh thats a big new city
    Him: You coming?
    Me: You wish I was (then I added a cute emoji)
    Him: Duhhh of course (Then he added the slap butt emoji, peach with hand slap)
    Me: Hmm I’ll have to wear a skirt
    Him: Love that, let me see

    February 27, 2017 at 3:39 pm #128416

    Me: Use your imagination
    Him: Oh, I have
    Me: Then you will just have to come here for real some time
    Him: I’m cummming
    Me: Kissing burns 6 calories a minute you know?
    Him: Well lets get a workout in
    Me: Don’t know if you can handle working out with me
    Him: Please, you’ll be in for a shock. I hope you can keep up
    Me: You’ll have to make sure I do
    Him: I’ll show you the ropes, of course
    Me: Haha looking forward to it. Hope you own a turtleneck, you’re gonna need it. (We have a funny inside joke about me giving him lots of hickeys on his neck, thus my comment)
    Him: haha good luck with that
    Me: You’ll be so distracted by my cuteness
    Him: You’ll be bent over and spanked
    Me: **inserts shocked emoji face. Now I’m going to be thinking about that all day tomorrow, you always do this lol
    Him: You love it
    Me: And you like making me squirm all the time
    Him: Of course I do. You enjoy it. You’ll have goosebumps
    Me: If you say so….
    Him: I do. I’m having my way with you.