What should I do about her?

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What should I do about her?

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    Rey Hysterio
    Rey Hysterio
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    October 9, 2019 at 11:46 am #223135
    What should I do about her?

    So, there’s this girl I like and she rejected me by saying she doesnt feel the same way about me and that we should be friends,etc etc. Its tough getting over her. Today, for the first time after she rejected me, we both said hi to each other and crossed paths in school. Later on she told my guy friend about this greeting incident, which I found quite strange..afterall she isnt interested in me yet she somehow found this seemingly minor event worthy of telling someone. Part of me is tempted to use these sorts of details to think that shes interested in me. Yet part of me wants to move on. I dont wanna overthink things.

    What should I do at this point given that I still like her?

    LiefO
    LiefO
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    October 11, 2019 at 1:06 am #223260

    Keep your distance!!! This may very well have nothing to do with your finer qualities or worth as a human. Quite likely she can tell that you smell too much like the males in her family.

    Mrgreenjeans
    Mrgreenjeans
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    October 11, 2019 at 2:38 am #223264

    Walk away bro, the ball is in her court now. Don’t ask her out again, if she asks you out, great. If she never does, then her interest was never there. But you did your part. Walk away. Now don’t get all butthurt either, I.e if she says hi to you or something, don’t ignore and say hi back in a rude way. Stay positive and upbeat to give her the sense of “you didn’t hurt me”. NEVER let a girl see you butthurt.

    amanda11
    amanda11
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    October 11, 2019 at 3:58 am #223266

    If she is ignoring you, then stop thinking about her. Because she doesn’t seems to come in a relation with you. You are still attracted to her and this attraction will go with time.

    Rey Hysterio
    Rey Hysterio
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    October 12, 2019 at 6:59 am #223355

    She’s not ignoring me, in fact she recently told my friend to tell me that she’s sad that I didn’t say hi to her yesterday unlike the day before. I found that strange since she has told me a week ago that she doesn’t like me in a romantic sense.

    gateway
    gateway
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    October 16, 2019 at 6:59 am #223513

    You just need to find other girl<<

    MidnightRain
    MidnightRain
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    October 17, 2019 at 10:07 pm #223654

    She probably isn’t interested, especially since she has told you she isn’t. As a girl who’s been in a similar situation, I can say that her telling someone else about the incident doesn’t necessarily mean she’s changed her mind or suddenly has feelings for you. It’s best if you move on and find someone who is also interested in you, otherwise this girl will find you annoying very quickly.

    Rey Hysterio
    Rey Hysterio
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    October 18, 2019 at 12:53 pm #223689
    Reply To: What should I do about her?

    She probably isn’t interested, especially since she has told you she isn’t. As a girl who’s been in a similar situation, I can say that her telling someone else about the incident doesn’t necessarily mean she’s changed her mind or suddenly has feelings for you. It’s best if you move on and find someone who is also interested in you, otherwise this girl will find you annoying very quickly.

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    You’re right. This is a harsh truth. I’ve now come to conclude the reality– she really doesn’t like me in a romantic sense. And you’re right. If I continue pursuing she’ll probly find me annoying. I guess moving on is all there is to this then.