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Jhouse1986

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January 21, 2014 at 9:13 am #46243

What Should I do about my first love?

I started dating a girl 11 years ago. Our relationship was amazing. We truly loved each other. We lasted 1 year and since my family was in the military I had to move. She promised she would wait because I would be 18 in a year and would come back. She waited (Confirmed by mutual friends) for 8 months and found someone else. By the time I got back she had been with him for 4 months. It hurt so bad. I didn’t pursue out of respect though. We lost contact for 8 years now, but recently started talking again. She voices that she wants to give us a try again and that she still thinks about me, but she has 2 kids, (Which I don’t have a problem with). She is also with someone else. She wants me to wait for her to initiate contact first. It so hard since every waking moment I think about her. I want nothing more than to be with her because she is the only woman I have ever loved. Any advice on what I should do? Is she just playing with my emotions? I can add more details if needed.