What should I do? I'm confused if whether she's not interested in me or…


What should I do? I'm confused if whether she's not interested in me or…

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    May 4, 2014 at 11:18 am #52161
    What should I do? I'm confused if whether she's not interested in me or…

    Ok so it’s been month seen we first met. Me and her are both in college. We’ve been out on date three times and on third time we kissed. We had great times, but that was our last date together and we haven’t been seeing each other much for almost 5 weeks now. Lately and since then I feels like she hasn’t been readily available to me. I don’t text her or call her often as I’d only when I’ve purpose. As I’d text or call her from times to times for date, but she’d always already have plan with her friends or have part job on that day or assignments to do. She’d always apologise to me when it happens and reply with some considerable response. I’m always the one who initiate the contact. Sometimes it would take her hours to response, and sometimes even gone unanswered (mostly on weekends). I’d run into her from time to time, maybe once a week. And she’d seem a eagerly happy to see me and nervous because her friend always around, it seems that her friends are giggling when we’re together.

    May 5, 2014 at 11:52 am #52182

    It sounds to me like she isn’t interested. Girls often are just natural flirts or just like to meet new people and talk to them. This doesn’t always mean they are interested though, maybe just looking for a new friend. If she doesn’t seem to want to initiate contact, it may be that she realized you were interested in her as more than a friend and does not want to lead you on. However, she still may like you as a friend.

    May 10, 2014 at 2:18 am #52592

    It sounds like she’s sending you mixed signals. Also, she should text you first sometimes, not always you being the one to initiate it. If she really wanted to see you she’d make time. At least that’s what I think.

    May 11, 2014 at 1:35 am #52609

    Sounds like you have a shy one on yer hands. I think she likes you but is pretty nervous to this stuff considering her shy personality

    May 13, 2014 at 9:12 am #52666

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    May 15, 2014 at 2:07 am #52904

    Sounds like she isnt interested and is still trying to be very polite. Id get out there and find another 🙂