What should i text her?

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What should i text her?

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    tlcchild
    tlcchild
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    December 26, 2015 at 7:44 pm #90531

    Be straight forward but not zealous

    7Natedawg7
    7Natedawg7
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    December 26, 2015 at 8:43 pm #90539

    Saying something funny to a girl is always a great first text.

    San Diego
    San Diego
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    December 29, 2015 at 1:07 am #90629

    I would suggest to start testing back and fourth. try to be playful and if you don’t know how to text well.
    Get a friend who’s success full with girls and can help you text.

    ARandomGuy
    ARandomGuy
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    December 29, 2015 at 1:28 am #90631

    Thanks everyone, your advice really helped. I texted her if she was free for coffee and she replied with a yes maybe, just that she is very busy and will let me know when she is free. That was a week ago. We have actually been texting for a few days now. The texts weren’t very consistent (they were spread out over several hours and some are even one whole day). Now its been 3 days and she has not replied. I do not know what to do. I was thinking of just waiting for her to reply and just give her some time to herself, maybe text her on new years? But, i am leaning towards giving her some space.

    jabroni
    jabroni
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    December 29, 2015 at 8:43 pm #90707

    this escalated quickly

    reitteg813
    reitteg813
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    December 30, 2015 at 11:41 am #90730

    “Hey (her name), it’s (your name). What’s up?

    Sinple

    sunshine5000
    sunshine5000
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    December 31, 2015 at 5:19 am #90754

    just be friendly! ease into the flirting, girls do not like it when guys are really full on! 🙂

    San Diego
    San Diego
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    January 4, 2016 at 8:12 am #90769

    sorry to hear that shes stringing you along. Any time a girl say yes maybe to hanging out shes really taking advantage of the situation and clearly telling you that she has the upper hand. Her saying that shes busy is BS. She probably enjoy having you texting her but dosent want to give you the time of day to hang out.
    Trust me you don’t want a girl like that.

    confusedguyno5
    confusedguyno5
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    January 5, 2016 at 12:22 am #90989

    make small talk first nice and casual … dont reply to her txts to fast

    playboy94
    playboy94
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    January 6, 2016 at 9:10 am #91094

    flirt…….

    BenjiMan
    BenjiMan
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    January 6, 2016 at 4:13 pm #91162

    Banter

    Light888
    Light888
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    January 6, 2016 at 4:59 pm #91172

    Just say heyy, and see what she responds. She may ask you whats up first and if she just says hey back then you can ask her how her day was. Don’t overthink it!

    Anonymous
    Anonymous
    January 7, 2016 at 4:15 pm #91276

    if you text her loads and loads she’ll eventually give in a become your wife, joke! Take it easy, play it cool…..

    coconutmilkshawty
    coconutmilkshawty
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    January 8, 2016 at 2:37 pm #91345

    just text hey and go from there, thinking about it too much could cause you to say something robotic or weird. just let it flow naturally and look for opportunities to make her laugh,

    alex117
    alex117
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    January 10, 2016 at 12:06 am #91397

    Depending on how well you know her just tease her a bit and keep the conversation fun and light.

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